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Title: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 10:21:28 AM
This is a "hard" one.
can you just be a friend to ur ex? without the added benefits?
And wat happens when you do cross that line?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: SUPER RUTHLESS on August 28, 2008, 10:27:09 AM
You cant, especially if yall have been real intimate.... coz everytime i see her, i just wanna touch her and hold her  :(



P.S i loooove ur avy hehehehehe  ;)
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: General Ratzinger van Stilzkin on August 28, 2008, 10:28:43 AM
i think u know from the jump. not all ex's u want the benefits with... i.e. i wudnt wanna dip into some ex's others u wud really be tempted to...
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 10:29:28 AM
You cant, especially if yall have been real intimate.... coz everytime i see her, i just wanna touch her and hold her  :(



P.S i loooove ur avy hehehehehe  ;)
Thankx , Im feeling on urs too 8)

Why so? I think MrC and I make gr8 mates.....
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 10:33:15 AM
My ex and I are best friends.We speak to each other almost daily and when I'm in bloem we hang out together or just sit talk about shit in our lives. It depends, I think, on what kind of relationship you had. If it was all physical, then you can't be friends, but if you were together for long and were able to talk to each other and share thoughts, its possible.

It is tempting sometimes, but you have to consider that you  may screw things up if you do any more.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Bobby Banks on August 28, 2008, 10:33:57 AM
You cant, especially if yall have been real intimate.... coz everytime i see her, i just wanna touch her and hold her  :(



P.S i loooove ur avy hehehehehe  ;)
Thankx , Im feeling on urs too 8)

Why so? I think MrC and I make gr8 mates.....

i know its none of my biz but i thought he was getting married?? what about the polish guy?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: SUPER RUTHLESS on August 28, 2008, 10:35:01 AM

Why so? I think MrC and I make gr8 mates.....

well then, if the feelings aint that deep nemore then u can go ahead... but if u tempted to do nething then I Dunno  ::)
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: cash on August 28, 2008, 10:35:47 AM
it all depends on what the relationship was mainly driven by!

If you were in a sexually driven relationship with that person, it wont work! ive tried and tested that one!

If you were in a more companionship type relationship, it might work!
If you can control the urges in those awkward moments!

If you were in a sex and companionship realtionship, it WONT WORK!
You are TOO COMPATIBLE! u are bound to connect in all ways possible!

So the chances are pretty slim.
I try to keep a distance from all my Ex's - cos im usually into the sex and companionship! and if it was just sex then i stay the hell away period!
I dont normally do , JUST COMPANIONSHIP
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 10:36:27 AM
My ex and I are best friends.We speak to each other almost daily and when I'm in bloem we hang out together or just sit talk about shit in our lives. It depends, I think, on what kind of relationship you had. If it was all physical, then you can't be friends, but if you were together for long and were able to talk to each other and share thoughts, its possible.

It is tempting sometimes, but you have to consider that you  may screw things up if you do any more.
Now thats wat I wanna know, wats happens when you do cross that line? :-\  MrC and I was just and e.g ( no under carpet bizz going down )
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: cash on August 28, 2008, 10:47:39 AM
My ex and I are best friends.We speak to each other almost daily and when I'm in bloem we hang out together or just sit talk about shit in our lives. It depends, I think, on what kind of relationship you had. If it was all physical, then you can't be friends, but if you were together for long and were able to talk to each other and share thoughts, its possible.

It is tempting sometimes, but you have to consider that you  may screw things up if you do any more.
Now thats wat I wanna know, wats happens when you do cross that line? :-\  MrC and I was just and e.g ( no under carpet bizz going down )

 :)
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 10:56:49 AM
 Seems like non of ya'll be doing or have done the "ex sex thang" ???
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 10:58:22 AM
it all depends on what the relationship was mainly driven by!

If you were in a sexually driven relationship with that person, it wont work! ive tried and tested that one!

If you were in a more companionship type relationship, it might work!
If you can control the urges in those awkward moments!

If you were in a sex and companionship realtionship, it WONT WORK!
You are TOO COMPATIBLE! u are bound to connect in all ways possible!

So the chances are pretty slim.
I try to keep a distance from all my Ex's - cos im usually into the sex and companionship! and if it was just sex then i stay the hell away period!
I dont normally do , JUST COMPANIONSHIP

Me no agreementing.

We were sexually and mentally compatible, which would explain us being together for almost 4 years.

It also explains why we can just hang out now, because, we can still just chill and talk for hours, or even sleep next to each other, since we both know how to use or brains and stay away from something that can jeopardise our friendship.

You can always get sex elsewhere, without losing someone that you clicque with mentally.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: erikah on August 28, 2008, 11:01:39 AM
eish girrrrrl................da x thing......... :-\
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 11:02:22 AM
it all depends on what the relationship was mainly driven by!

If you were in a sexually driven relationship with that person, it wont work! ive tried and tested that one!

If you were in a more companionship type relationship, it might work!
If you can control the urges in those awkward moments!

If you were in a sex and companionship realtionship, it WONT WORK!
You are TOO COMPATIBLE! u are bound to connect in all ways possible!

So the chances are pretty slim.
I try to keep a distance from all my Ex's - cos im usually into the sex and companionship! and if it was just sex then i stay the hell away period!
I dont normally do , JUST COMPANIONSHIP

Me no agreementing.

We were sexually and mentally compatible, which would explain us being together for almost 4 years.

It also explains why we can just hang out now, because, we can still just chill and talk for hours, or even sleep next to each other, since we both know how to use or brains and stay away from something that can jeopardise our friendship.

You can always get sex elsewhere, without losing someone that you clicque with mentally.
And say it's the best you EVA had? as in eva! ??? then wat??
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: cash on August 28, 2008, 11:02:55 AM
@Nathan, i admire your "control"
I dont think i can keep a woman ive connected with like that, off me ;D and vice versa
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Blaque_Poetess on August 28, 2008, 11:07:35 AM
sex with the ex is the devil..
im friends with some of my exes,
one in particular im very close to still
we have both since moved on, and know that we'd never hook up again, so that makes things easier.
from my experience hooking up with an ex always has disastrous repercussions.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: cash on August 28, 2008, 11:09:03 AM
i must agree 99% there
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 11:11:00 AM
sex with the ex is the devil..
im friends with some of my exes,
one in particular im very close to still
we have both since moved on, and know that we'd never hook up again, so that makes things easier.
from my experience hooking up with an ex always has disastrous repercussions.
How so? Yo , Im a 20 year old young lady I need to know these things (((( HOLLER! )))
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Enis21 on August 28, 2008, 11:12:07 AM
why do we humans make up these rules for ourselves?

if you wanna sleep with the X! go ahead!
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 11:14:01 AM
sex with the ex is the devil..
im friends with some of my exes,
one in particular im very close to still
we have both since moved on, and know that we'd never hook up again, so that makes things easier.
from my experience hooking up with an ex always has disastrous repercussions.

Yeah, and you have to learn to control your sexual urges, especially me, considering that my lack of control is what caused us to break up. You realise that sex isn't everything and you don't get the same kind of mental stimulation from anyone else.

Even if it was the best sex ever (which it was), you have to keep the other more important stuff, and hope you fins someone else to give you sex that is that good.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: cash on August 28, 2008, 11:41:30 AM
where is Mr C?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 11:50:53 AM
where is Mr C?
his just a lil tied up right now.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 28, 2008, 11:52:35 AM
Me & Jay are Homie/Friends.With Benefits. She sends me new emoticons on MSN all the time.Very beneficial i must say.

Ma gal.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: cash on August 28, 2008, 11:55:23 AM
*crowd goes wild as Mr C enters and grabs the mic*
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 11:57:35 AM
Me & Jay are Homie/Friends. She sends me new emoticons on MSN all the time.Very beneficial i must say.

Ma gal
ma boy
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Drag on August 28, 2008, 11:58:48 AM
And does your wife know about this and how does she feel ::)
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: cash on August 28, 2008, 12:00:32 PM
Would be interesting if Drag was who i think she was :D
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: General Ratzinger van Stilzkin on August 28, 2008, 12:02:28 PM
why do we humans make up these rules for ourselves?

if you wanna sleep with the X! go ahead!


the most profound statament i dont heard today... i co-sign and add and live with the consequences
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 28, 2008, 12:16:27 PM
FALL BACK from ex's. Especially if you had serious relationships with them. No good can come from it. I speak the GOSPEL truth  :)

@ JAy Lee.. I thought you turned 21?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 12:21:21 PM
FALL BACK from ex's. Especially if you had serious relationships with them. No good can come from it. I speak the GOSPEL truth  :)

@ JAy Lee.. I thought you turned 21?
only on the 02- 09 . I noticed summa ya'll court the wrong end of the stick . I just didnt know what to do for ma Bday and wanted to know what stunt I cud pull.

Ya'll keep saying its a NO-NO to hook up with an ex, but cant say why and share your experiences  ???
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 28, 2008, 12:26:15 PM
Ahh i see. I'm 3years older than you. From now on Adress me as Sir or Sir Jeweler or His Majesty the Jeweler.

BUt seriously. An Ex nearly ruined my life.. Wait let me rephrase, me foolishly keeping ties with my ex nearly ruined my life. That friendship dream is a falicy. 
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 12:33:18 PM
Ahh i see. I'm 3years older than you. From now on Adress me as Sir or Sir Jeweler or His Majesty the Jeweler.

BUt seriously. An Ex nearly ruined my life.. Wait let me rephrase, me foolishly keeping ties with my ex nearly ruined my life. That friendship dream is a falicy. 
Sir , yes, Sir !!!
and you got a wife at ur age???
WoW!!
Cheated yet? And wat went on with your ex?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 28, 2008, 12:47:56 PM
Havent cheated on the MRS. I take marriage very seriously, wouldnt have done it if i wasnt ready. Its tough, but i dont regret any day, hour, minute or second of it.

Besides I'm terrified of her. If i ever did something that foolish, she would probably boil five litres of oil and throw it all over me in my sleep. I'm not speculating. I was warned and i believe her  ;D

Out of respect for my ex, i wont get into what happened. I just wish she would afford me the same respect and not continue to slander and lie about things that happened between us, post and pre break-up.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Drag on August 28, 2008, 12:52:41 PM
Would be very interesting,wouldn't it...some drama for yall crazy bunch :-X

Don't worry C your secret is safe with me,won't tell poor wifey :'(
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 12:55:26 PM
Havent cheated on the MRS. I take marriage very seriously, wouldnt have done it if i wasnt ready. Its tough, but i dont regret any day, hour, minute or second of it.

Besides I'm terrified of her. If i ever did something that foolish, she would probably boil five litres of oil and throw it all over me in my sleep. I'm not speculating. I was warned and i believe her  ;D

Out of respect for my ex, i wont get into what happened. I just wish she would afford me the same respect and not continue to slander and lie about things that happened between us, post and pre break-up.
Told the Polish lad, " if you ever cheat on me ( I mean this ) I'll CHOP ur balls off and feed it to the homeless ) Mr Balls!

I think Im ready for it too. I just love the idea of going home to someone. 8) :-*
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: erikah on August 28, 2008, 12:56:16 PM
ex's can be whack... :P 1 dude used to call me on private & not say a word.......he'd literally listen to me speak shit.....& COZ I KNEW IT WAS HIM I'D START SINGING..WASTE HIS AIRTIME....til i'd say his name then he'd hang up....how dumb can u get G... :P :P :P :P......GIRL J......DERRRZ MO FISH IN DA DAMN C.....4GET HIS EXPIRED a**........ ;)
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 12:59:17 PM
Besides I'm terrified of her. If i ever did something that foolish, she would probably boil five litres of oil and throw it all over me in my sleep. I'm not speculating. I was warned and i believe her  ;D

And you still don't regret marrying her???

I would be out the door as soon as I hear something like this.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: RearrangedReality on August 28, 2008, 01:02:12 PM
I've realised that i'm uncomfortable with having my girlfriend being friends with her ex's and thats because i know how easy it would be for me to sleep with 99.99% of my ex's even when they have boyfriends. if i can do it that easily, what would make it difficult for her to do the same? being "close" friends with your ex isnt safe but i dont have a problem with a no so close friendship with them.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 28, 2008, 01:06:28 PM
And does your wife know about this and how does she feel ::)

Well obviously wifey comes first. If she doesn't like any of my friendships, then obviously the friendship would end.She's wifey for a reason yo. I love her to bits. Im friends with most of my ex's and why shouldn't i be really ? Nothing has ever happened between me and them.One of them is even friendly with my wife and she was present @ my engagement party.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 28, 2008, 01:06:56 PM
And you still don't regret marrying her???

I would be out the door as soon as I hear something like this.

Does that mean you intend to cheat when you get married? The way i look at it, unless Mila Kuniz comes a-knocking, i should be safe.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Soul Amazin' on August 28, 2008, 01:09:08 PM
Out of respect for my ex, i wont get into what happened. I just wish she would afford me the same respect and not continue to slander and lie about things that happened between us, post and pre break-up.

Damn..why do women love doing that, but yet at the same time they want you back.... >:(

As for the ex-friend ting: If you are in a relationship stay away from the exes, they'll bring u problems....
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 28, 2008, 01:10:59 PM
Would be very interesting,wouldn't it...some drama for yall crazy bunch :-X

Don't worry C your secret is safe with me,won't tell poor wifey :'(

Secret ? What Secret ? It aint no secret that im friendly with some of my ex's. Whoever u are,do what u gotta do.Im a man,i don't hide behind computer screens. Like i said i love my wife and there's nothing i wouldn't do for her.So whatever ill feelings u have for me,you can go ahead and act them out yo.We've been through more in the last 8 years for a friendship with some of my  ex's to even make a dent in our bond,so whatever yo. Why the f*** u think we getting married ?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 01:11:42 PM
ex's can be whack... :P 1 dude used to call me on private & not say a word.......he'd literally listen to me speak shit.....& COZ I KNEW IT WAS HIM I'D START SINGING..WASTE HIS AIRTIME....til i'd say his name then he'd hang up....how dumb can u get G... :P :P :P :P......GIRL J......DERRRZ MO FISH IN DA DAMN C.....4GET HIS EXPIRED a**........ ;)
Nah sweets, I aint sweating on ones "expired a** "  just wanna be sure if Im making the right move.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 01:14:12 PM
Depends on the nature of the relationship. If you feel that you are still sexually attracted to him, then don't be friends. AT ALL. You have different connections with different people and sometimes a break -up isn't enough to end that connection. You find that some ex's make the best of friends but shitty boyfriends, it's up to you to make that call. We all have those ex's that we just love because of the kind of people they are. I say you can be friends with your ex without anything happening especially if you know that that someone is a jerk.

Does that mean you intend to cheat when you get married? The way i look at it, unless Mila Kuniz comes a-knocking, i should be safe.

This is something I could never understand even in relationship.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 01:14:19 PM
And you still don't regret marrying her???

I would be out the door as soon as I hear something like this.

Does that mean you intend to cheat when you get married? The way i look at it, unless Mila Kuniz comes a-knocking, i should be safe.

Not at all. I don't believe in cheating when you're in a relationship. I'm just saying. That kind of threat on my physical well-being scares me.

What if you have a misunderstanding and she thinks you're cheating? You could end up with 3rd degree burns, for no reason.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: General Ratzinger van Stilzkin on August 28, 2008, 01:17:38 PM
And you still don't regret marrying her???

I would be out the door as soon as I hear something like this.

Does that mean you intend to cheat when you get married? The way i look at it, unless Mila Kuniz comes a-knocking, i should be safe.

ha ha ha ha! like i always tell the Misus u dont have to worry Nia Long is very far away... and if i ever hit the states im going with u. either than that u aint gotta worry bout nothin... not that it helps.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 01:21:29 PM
What if you have a misunderstanding and she thinks you're cheating? You could end up with 3rd degree burns, for no reason.

What kind of misunderstanding would lead to that? Usually whats smells like a rat and looks like a rat is a rat.
Yazi you guys are so transparent and it's scary that you don't know that. You know when your man is cheating or at least doing something it's just a matter of time before the truth comes out.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 01:36:47 PM
Quote
What kind of misunderstanding would lead to that? Usually whats smells like a rat and looks like a rat is a rat.
Yazi you guys are so transparent and it's scary that you don't know that. You know when your man is cheating or at least doing something it's just a matter of time before the truth comes out.
Sometimes we have nothing to do with it even, then we get into shit.

I was taking a shower at the University swimming pool once, when some crazy fugly chick walks in naked and gets into the shower next to me. I get out, get dressed and since she is drunk, I decide not to make too much of it.

A few days later one of the girls that was in the hostel with my girl comes to me and asks me if its true that I f***ed this girl. I say hell no, and she says, well you better sort shit out then, cos she is telling everyone that you f***ed her. By this time the entire hostel, including my girl had heard the story and she wanted to break things off.

Luckily while we are sitting in my car and she is getting ready to break up with me, this bitch rolls by.
I get out and ask her in front of my girl and all her friends, what this is I hear about f***ing her.
She denies any knowledge of this, but her friends tell her she's lying, cos she told them all we f***ed.
Then my girl realised that the bitch is crazy, and believed me.

That is the kind of misunderstanding that can lead to you getting your sausage fried for no reason.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 28, 2008, 01:41:15 PM
hahahaha. I'll remember not to shower in public places, Or end up in beds i'm not meant to be in.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 01:43:57 PM
Firstly. Shit that is a crazy situation.
Secondly. That is not a misunderstanding, technically speaking there was a rat, you jus weren't it. See it smelled like a rat (her) it looked like a rat (her) it was a rat (her).
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 01:45:39 PM
hahahaha. I'll remember not to shower in public places, Or end up in beds i'm not meant to be in.

Inyambo how long have you been married?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 28, 2008, 01:48:58 PM
Not long.. Coming on 9months.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Soul Amazin' on August 28, 2008, 01:51:20 PM
Firstly. Shit that is a crazy situation.
Secondly. That is not a misunderstanding, technically speaking there was a rat, you jus weren't it. See it smelled like a rat (her) it looked like a rat (her) it was a rat (her).

In simple english: It always starts with a woman...damn u guys are troublesome, but we love u still  ;)
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 01:52:34 PM
Not long.. Coming on 9months.

Cute.

Wena Mr C heard through the grapevines that lobola negotiations went well, have you set a date yet and am I invited?   ;D

In simple english: It always starts with a woman...damn u guys are troublesome, but we love u still  ;)

Don't blame us, blame that bitch Eve.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 01:56:45 PM
hahahaha. I'll remember not to shower in public places, Or end up in beds i'm not meant to be in.
I think that was pretty big of you not to spill the beans on your ex, you a good guy, Big up's to you! :-*
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 01:59:36 PM
hahahaha. I'll remember not to shower in public places, Or end up in beds i'm not meant to be in.

Don't know what made me decide to go take a dip that morning in the first place.

I was hung-over and just got back on campus after drinking the whole night, with no sleep. HAd some stuff to do and thought that a swim would make me feel better.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 28, 2008, 02:01:16 PM


Wena Mr C heard through the grapevines that lobola negotiations went well, have you set a date yet and am I invited?   ;D


hey bathong.le dinka kae ditaba vele  ? LOL !!!

yeah lobola's went very well. finishing off in November.Can't wait, then she's mine forever.Wedding sometime next year. we can't agree on a date yet. LOL !!! Got about 15 AG invitations,so ya'll can fight amongst yourselves.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 02:10:26 PM


Wena Mr C heard through the grapevines that lobola negotiations went well, have you set a date yet and am I invited?   ;D


hey bathong.le dinka kae ditaba vele  ? LOL !!!

yeah lobola's went very well. finishing off in November.Can't wait, then she's mine forever.Wedding sometime next year. we can't agree on a date yet. LOL !!! Got about 15 AG invitations,so ya'll can fight amongst yourselves.
LOL, make that 14 :P

OOOh, and I wont buy a white dress LMAO!!!
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The CHEF on August 28, 2008, 02:11:57 PM


Wena Mr C heard through the grapevines that lobola negotiations went well, have you set a date yet and am I invited?   ;D


hey bathong.le dinka kae ditaba vele  ? LOL !!!

yeah lobola's went very well. finishing off in November.Can't wait, then she's mine forever.Wedding sometime next year. we can't agree on a date yet. LOL !!! Got about 15 AG invitations,so ya'll can fight amongst yourselves.

Hopefully the wedding day wont take long like The Federation album....lol

 ;D
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 02:12:07 PM
Lobola is one of the reasons I wanna marry an Indian girl. Then I can insist on her family paying me a dowry.

I just don't  feel that any woman is worth me parting with any more than maybe five chickens and a case of black Label.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: General Ratzinger van Stilzkin on August 28, 2008, 02:16:06 PM
Lobola is one of the reasons I wanna marry an Indian girl. Then I can insist on her family paying me a dowry.

I just don't  feel that any woman is worth me parting with any more than maybe five chickens and a case of black Label.

ha ha ha ha!! 
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Bobby Banks on August 28, 2008, 02:19:23 PM
Lobola is one of the reasons I wanna marry an Indian girl. Then I can insist on her family paying me a dowry.

I just don't  feel that any woman is worth me parting with any more than maybe five chickens and a case of black Label.

gospel truth
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 28, 2008, 02:23:23 PM
@ Jay

ok 14 then.jy know mos, jy will your invitation in person ge-get ? regs ? jy weet mos gore,my and jou is gazi's for lewe. LOL !


Hopefully the wedding day wont take long like The Federation album....lol

 ;D

hahahaha.eish dude. the wedding is one of the reasons THE FEDERADO album is taking too long.

Next year is gonna be a beautiful year.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Soul Amazin' on August 28, 2008, 02:24:35 PM
hey bathong.le dinka kae ditaba vele  ? LOL !!!
  ;D Facebook  ;D

LOL, make that 14 :P

OOOh, and I wont buy a white dress LMAO!!!

Please dont cut the wedding short...stay away from the ex  ;D
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: RearrangedReality on August 28, 2008, 02:31:23 PM
@ Jay

ok 14 then.jy know mos, jy will your invitation in person ge-get ? regs ? jy weet mos gore,my and jou is gazi's for lewe. LOL !


Hah ha ha!! ok my day just got a little bit better.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 02:39:46 PM


Wena Mr C heard through the grapevines that lobola negotiations went well, have you set a date yet and am I invited?   ;D


hey bathong.le dinka kae ditaba vele  ? LOL !!!

yeah lobola's went very well. finishing off in November.Can't wait, then she's mine forever.Wedding sometime next year. we can't agree on a date yet. LOL !!! Got about 15 AG invitations,so ya'll can fight amongst yourselves.

Not so sure what that is but I'll guess but sorry yo splashed it across your fb page so duh...
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 02:40:53 PM
@ Jay

ok 14 then.jy know mos, jy will your invitation in person ge-get ? regs ? jy weet mos gore,my and jou is gazi's for lewe. LOL !


Hopefully the wedding day wont take long like The Federation album....lol

 ;D

hahahaha.eish dude. the wedding is one of the reasons THE FEDERADO album is taking too long.

Next year is gonna be a beautiful year.
 waaaaaaaaaaakwa kwa kwa kwa your afrikaans is a joke ma " gazi" LOL!!!
yeah, you know where the crib be @, I want mine hand delivered!  ;D
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: SUPER RUTHLESS on August 28, 2008, 02:42:18 PM
waaaaaaaaaaakwa kwa kwa kwa your afrikaans is a joke ma " gazi" LOL!!!
yeah, you know where the crib be @, I want mine hand delivered!  ;D

This is a cause for concern  :-\
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 02:44:07 PM
waaaaaaaaaaakwa kwa kwa kwa your afrikaans is a joke ma " gazi" LOL!!!
yeah, you know where the crib be @, I want mine hand delivered!  ;D

This is a cause for concern  :-\

Jay the man is not even married yet and you already playing Little Kim. SMH.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 28, 2008, 02:47:46 PM
^^^ hahaha
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 02:50:18 PM
^^^ hahaha
^^^^ X2
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 02:54:02 PM
I hate weddings, they kinda point out that you're running out of time especially family wedding cause you will get that nosy aunt who finds the need to ask when an invitation from you should be expected. Like wtf.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Tonnes on August 28, 2008, 02:57:43 PM
^^^u old ma  ;D
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 02:59:23 PM
I hate weddings, they kinda point out that you're running out of time especially family wedding cause you will get that nosy aunt who finds the need to ask when an invitation from you should be expected. Like wtf.
I love weddings actually, I like watching the couples express their love, kindda strange how my Dad's 2nd ex wife looked so happy and took half, ( sowi 4 ma french) BITCH!
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 03:01:39 PM
^^^u old ma  ;D

No not really but my aunts (which are actually jus neighbours) would resort to marring a feotus if it meant they got free food.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Bobby Banks on August 28, 2008, 03:03:16 PM
^^^u old ma  ;D

cold as ice
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 28, 2008, 03:07:27 PM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 03:09:20 PM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!

The f***? Are you serious... where do people get this info first Pyro's mom now your girlfriend?  :o  :o In the words of Mad Raper: I am choked.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: General Ratzinger van Stilzkin on August 28, 2008, 03:13:39 PM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!

people do that? wow... hating levels are at an all time high.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Angry Hand of God on August 28, 2008, 03:17:46 PM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!

The f***? Are you serious... where do people get this info first Pyro's mom now your girlfriend?  :o  :o In the words of Mad Raper: I am choked.

People on AG get more f***ed up by the day. I think I'm going to call in some "exterminators" from a certain website, that took care of the a**holes on SOHH.

I'm sure they wouldn't mind destroying everything and leaving only the threads with free downloads.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Tonnes on August 28, 2008, 03:23:31 PM
Some ppl r f***ing stupid.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: The Mighty Loks on August 28, 2008, 03:24:57 PM
Some ppl r f***ing stupid.

I think they're jus bored. Don't know why they don't jus kill themselves..but hey
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 28, 2008, 03:27:36 PM
Wow, Im not the fighting type, Im outta here!
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Lord Deacon Of Frost on August 28, 2008, 03:48:23 PM
Who is this drag fag
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: churchofthe latterdayLatte on August 28, 2008, 04:25:27 PM
Lobola is one of the reasons I wanna marry an Indian girl. Then I can insist on her family paying me a dowry.

I just don't  feel that any woman is worth me parting with any more than maybe five chickens and a case of black Label.



that's so mean ;_;
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: churchofthe latterdayLatte on August 28, 2008, 04:31:33 PM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!


what a hating homewrecker... she probably one of her shady homies hoping to cop an invite... or maybe she wants the C-juice for herself. lol. but wow, hectic. Stay Skrong C! Hey are you marrying your son's moms? Good luck and oodles of happiness ma nig.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Taf1 on August 28, 2008, 04:33:13 PM
i dont believe in these things... at all
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 28, 2008, 04:39:59 PM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!


what a hating homewrecker... she probably one of her shady homies hoping to cop an invite... or maybe she wants the C-juice for herself. lol. but wow, hectic. Stay Skrong C! Hey are you marrying your son's moms? Good luck and oodles of happiness ma nig.

Thanks Latte. Yeah iam.This drag creature has actually just made me more stronger ,to love and cherish my woman to the utmost,cos i know she believes in me.Still wish i knew who it was.Been a while since we put a hurting on someone.keep hiding behind that keyboard.coward f***.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: A pimp named Sarkozy on August 29, 2008, 11:28:12 AM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!


what a hating homewrecker... she probably one of her shady homies hoping to cop an invite... or maybe she wants the C-juice for herself. lol. but wow, hectic. Stay Skrong C! Hey are you marrying your son's moms? Good luck and oodles of happiness ma nig.

Thanks Latte. Yeah iam.This drag creature has actually just made me more stronger ,to love and cherish my woman to the utmost,cos i know she believes in me.Still wish i knew who it was.Been a while since we put a hurting on someone.keep hiding behind that keyboard.coward f***.

That Drag chick or guy is an idiot,That was so low.Any idea who it is?
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Bobby Banks on August 29, 2008, 11:41:00 AM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!


what a hating homewrecker... she probably one of her shady homies hoping to cop an invite... or maybe she wants the C-juice for herself. lol. but wow, hectic. Stay Skrong C! Hey are you marrying your son's moms? Good luck and oodles of happiness ma nig.

Thanks Latte. Yeah iam.This drag creature has actually just made me more stronger ,to love and cherish my woman to the utmost,cos i know she believes in me.Still wish i knew who it was.Been a while since we put a hurting on someone.keep hiding behind that keyboard.coward f***.

That Drag chick or guy is an idiot,That was so low.Any idea who it is?

probly a bitter/jealous ex??
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: General Ratzinger van Stilzkin on August 29, 2008, 11:43:07 AM
LOL @ Drag or whoever the f*** you are. Sending the contents of this thread to my baby thinking you gonna break something. I told you i got nothing to hide f***er. Depressed piece of shit,don't wanna see other people happy.EAT A DICK AND DIE !!!!!


what a hating homewrecker... she probably one of her shady homies hoping to cop an invite... or maybe she wants the C-juice for herself. lol. but wow, hectic. Stay Skrong C! Hey are you marrying your son's moms? Good luck and oodles of happiness ma nig.

Thanks Latte. Yeah iam.This drag creature has actually just made me more stronger ,to love and cherish my woman to the utmost,cos i know she believes in me.Still wish i knew who it was.Been a while since we put a hurting on someone.keep hiding behind that keyboard.coward f***.

That Drag chick or guy is an idiot,That was so low.Any idea who it is?

probly a bitter/jealous ex??

methinks so!!
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: SUPER RUTHLESS on August 29, 2008, 11:52:30 AM
or maybe it was JAY LEE  ;)
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: MrC The Rap God Almighty on August 29, 2008, 11:58:37 AM
Outta respect my peeps, can we please dead this topic now. Thanks.
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: THAT LADY! on August 29, 2008, 12:08:36 PM
Outta respect my peeps, can we please dead this topic now. Thanks.
I feel you C and i hope this will be the end of it, but not after I say ma 2cents!!

Anyone that knows me knows that I am not the bitter type and to insinuate that I could be the son of a ( excuse ma french ) Bitch that did that to C ( Yes you Ruthless ) is low!

THE END! >:(
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: Omero's Daddy on August 29, 2008, 12:18:57 PM
:o  :o In the words of Mad Raper: I am choked.

lol sorry.. but HAHAHAHAHhahahahahHA
Title: Re: Ex + friend = no benefits?
Post by: RearrangedReality on August 29, 2008, 12:43:28 PM
:o  :o In the words of Mad Raper: I am choked.

lol sorry.. but HAHAHAHAHhahahahahHA

yah too funny. lol