My mans...do you still got a relationship with your daughter in spite of the divorce...that's my worst fear not havin a relationship with my seed after a break up
Yes I do, but at great effort and expense. My ex didn't want me to see the child or to live with the Child after the breakup. I offered to live with the child but she said no and that the child must stay with the grandma (her Mom) and she took the child to the grandma without my approval or knowledge.
I tried speaking to her Mom after it went down but she wudn't budge so I was like hell no and so I sued both her and the Mum in the High Court and got a Court Order to give me visitation as well as to put into place a social worker's invetsigation to decide who the child must live with. But even tho I am an Attorney I had to hire somebody else represent me and it cost me a packet not to mention the personal stress.
I will probably get custody since she doesn't want to live with the child but I'm more than willing to live with my daughter permanently. I already have a child-minder who stayed with me and my daughter for the 1st two week visitation I had and it was easy as pie so I can definetely do it.
I cudn't forgive myself tho if I let my child grow up with the granny. I am not hustling and hitting these streets hard for that to happen.
@ Kniep Tang, yeah you never know man sometimes experience is the best teacher.some people fold some make it happen.
Sorry to her this is the route things went,
WHY, I will tread carefully coz this the mother of your kid, but I am fuming inside...why won''t she want you to see you kid worse still why won't she want to stay with her own kid...the nail in the coffin is why give you kid to your mother when the father is willing and wanting to take care of her?
My baby mamma tried to pull that shit with me, i told her in as many words that "ngeke uk'bone lok'"
i gotta go but i'll add to this thread.