Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2006 9:37 am Post subject:
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Well Latte... don't mind if call you that my dear? Bein offensive is wonderfully empowering, its a way to immediately put some1 on the back foot and give them pause. If you don't care about the person you're talking to, cutting them emotionally without warning or obvious reason, bonds them to you, if i toss a few insults your way, i look for the one you react worst to... now i got an in to your vulnerabilities and then i can pick at them, with girls a clear winner is body image and/or self-esteem... now women's mags are always going on abouthow you should just ignore the attacks and make yourself happy "on the inside" we all know thats bullshit... these same magazines tell you, you not thin enuff, sexy enuff or stylish enuff and you lap it up SO we know that when you walk away, as much as you try to deny it to yourself, you're being consumed by, "Why was he such a prick? What did I do?" so much so that latte my dear, you went so far as to bring yo personal shit to the internet...
Hi Syn,Oh wow, you have it exactly, I havent even read the rest of your post. no I see your point exactly. your musings are correct to a point-It wasnt me, but I observed it in the most spectacular way. my question did not arise from witnessing the typical response from a lady, but quite the converse. she held it down without even returnin the favour.he was all loud at first because his boys were there, but it was spectacular how his voice lowered, offering that the meeting had started on the wrong foot, to which she replied something like, no dont be sorry dude, its all good. and what I observed of the guy was reminiscent of the jungle gym- hair pulin tactics n all that. am I correct in speculating that this is a method of acquiring- divide and rule so to speak. what I want to know is how effective has it been? its interesting.