this is not a personal view, but rather general. my aim was demonstrate a typical reaction to ex's view...one laced with black perceptions of injustice that precludes understanding of any other rationale. IM NOT RACIST, SOME OF MY BEST FRIENDS ARE WHITE (lol).
honestly though, we all generalise, but never really acknowledge how different our individual interactions with people of other races are. we'll have this and that to say about indians/whites/blacks/reds/greens on the general, but these issues do not permeate smaller circles and person-to-person relations.
like, actually, all blacks should go jump off a cliff...but sipho, you're not like the rest of them.