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This is a "hard" one.
can you just be a friend to ur ex? without the added benefits?
And wat happens when you do cross that line?
« Last Edit: August 28, 2008, 10:22:28 AM by jay-lee »


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You cant, especially if yall have been real intimate.... coz everytime i see her, i just wanna touch her and hold her  :(



P.S i loooove ur avy hehehehehe  ;)


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i think u know from the jump. not all ex's u want the benefits with... i.e. i wudnt wanna dip into some ex's others u wud really be tempted to...
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You cant, especially if yall have been real intimate.... coz everytime i see her, i just wanna touch her and hold her  :(



P.S i loooove ur avy hehehehehe  ;)
Thankx , Im feeling on urs too 8)

Why so? I think MrC and I make gr8 mates.....


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My ex and I are best friends.We speak to each other almost daily and when I'm in bloem we hang out together or just sit talk about shit in our lives. It depends, I think, on what kind of relationship you had. If it was all physical, then you can't be friends, but if you were together for long and were able to talk to each other and share thoughts, its possible.

It is tempting sometimes, but you have to consider that you  may screw things up if you do any more.




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You cant, especially if yall have been real intimate.... coz everytime i see her, i just wanna touch her and hold her  :(



P.S i loooove ur avy hehehehehe  ;)
Thankx , Im feeling on urs too 8)

Why so? I think MrC and I make gr8 mates.....

i know its none of my biz but i thought he was getting married?? what about the polish guy?
iv got a fire in my heart and your critism fans it!


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Why so? I think MrC and I make gr8 mates.....

well then, if the feelings aint that deep nemore then u can go ahead... but if u tempted to do nething then I Dunno  ::)


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it all depends on what the relationship was mainly driven by!

If you were in a sexually driven relationship with that person, it wont work! ive tried and tested that one!

If you were in a more companionship type relationship, it might work!
If you can control the urges in those awkward moments!

If you were in a sex and companionship realtionship, it WONT WORK!
You are TOO COMPATIBLE! u are bound to connect in all ways possible!

So the chances are pretty slim.
I try to keep a distance from all my Ex's - cos im usually into the sex and companionship! and if it was just sex then i stay the hell away period!
I dont normally do , JUST COMPANIONSHIP
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My ex and I are best friends.We speak to each other almost daily and when I'm in bloem we hang out together or just sit talk about shit in our lives. It depends, I think, on what kind of relationship you had. If it was all physical, then you can't be friends, but if you were together for long and were able to talk to each other and share thoughts, its possible.

It is tempting sometimes, but you have to consider that you  may screw things up if you do any more.
Now thats wat I wanna know, wats happens when you do cross that line? :-\  MrC and I was just and e.g ( no under carpet bizz going down )
« Last Edit: August 28, 2008, 10:44:11 AM by jay-lee »


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My ex and I are best friends.We speak to each other almost daily and when I'm in bloem we hang out together or just sit talk about shit in our lives. It depends, I think, on what kind of relationship you had. If it was all physical, then you can't be friends, but if you were together for long and were able to talk to each other and share thoughts, its possible.

It is tempting sometimes, but you have to consider that you  may screw things up if you do any more.
Now thats wat I wanna know, wats happens when you do cross that line? :-\  MrC and I was just and e.g ( no under carpet bizz going down )

 :)
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 Seems like non of ya'll be doing or have done the "ex sex thang" ???


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it all depends on what the relationship was mainly driven by!

If you were in a sexually driven relationship with that person, it wont work! ive tried and tested that one!

If you were in a more companionship type relationship, it might work!
If you can control the urges in those awkward moments!

If you were in a sex and companionship realtionship, it WONT WORK!
You are TOO COMPATIBLE! u are bound to connect in all ways possible!

So the chances are pretty slim.
I try to keep a distance from all my Ex's - cos im usually into the sex and companionship! and if it was just sex then i stay the hell away period!
I dont normally do , JUST COMPANIONSHIP

Me no agreementing.

We were sexually and mentally compatible, which would explain us being together for almost 4 years.

It also explains why we can just hang out now, because, we can still just chill and talk for hours, or even sleep next to each other, since we both know how to use or brains and stay away from something that can jeopardise our friendship.

You can always get sex elsewhere, without losing someone that you clicque with mentally.




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it all depends on what the relationship was mainly driven by!

If you were in a sexually driven relationship with that person, it wont work! ive tried and tested that one!

If you were in a more companionship type relationship, it might work!
If you can control the urges in those awkward moments!

If you were in a sex and companionship realtionship, it WONT WORK!
You are TOO COMPATIBLE! u are bound to connect in all ways possible!

So the chances are pretty slim.
I try to keep a distance from all my Ex's - cos im usually into the sex and companionship! and if it was just sex then i stay the hell away period!
I dont normally do , JUST COMPANIONSHIP

Me no agreementing.

We were sexually and mentally compatible, which would explain us being together for almost 4 years.

It also explains why we can just hang out now, because, we can still just chill and talk for hours, or even sleep next to each other, since we both know how to use or brains and stay away from something that can jeopardise our friendship.

You can always get sex elsewhere, without losing someone that you clicque with mentally.
And say it's the best you EVA had? as in eva! ??? then wat??


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@Nathan, i admire your "control"
I dont think i can keep a woman ive connected with like that, off me ;D and vice versa
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