Good going Rebbi.
I noticed in your post you said that you "f***ed him". Is this what happened after the chat? Did your wife watch? I hope not, cos that could put a strain on your marriage later on.
I had a similar experience last year. Walking down the street just after getting back fom Kimberley with a lift, me and my one cousin were clowning the other one, cos he likes to act gangster and when shit pops he is the first to run.
He was denying it and acting hard when 3 dudes roll up and the one pulls out a 9mm. My other cuz is a bit insane and he goes straight for the dude and starts f***ing him up as soon as he cocks the gun. I grab the second one and then we all stop and turn around to watch my cousin who acts gangster running and screaming like a woman: "They got a gun, help!"
Me and my cousin forget about the 2 we were f***ing up and look at my other cuz in amazement, and these dudes all start running, with us behind them, until they jumped in a ride that was waiting down the street.