My mother had her first child @17, she was married, most of the "grandmothers" you speak of were married when they had kids, thats besides the point. Yes you're right, its soo wrong of her to generalise but she is commenting on what she is seeing. We keep on giving the older generation that is criticising what we are not fixin, the same answer. "Mind your business, you don't know what you speak of, theres underground hip hop, let us deal with it, blah blah, blah" but we are not dealing with it, its getting worse every year and you expected our elders to keep quiet. Kufuneka bangxole kakade xa bebona isizwe sethu simoshakala, its their duty as elders.