I've just read some really sad story and I figured to start this thread really to say whatever you're going through, that's if you're going through something,
always remember this Zulu idiom "Ayikho indlovu eyasindwa umbongo wayo"
You might have to excuse the spelling I'm a Soweto Zulu, but translated it means- no elephant found its trunk too heavy.
Carry on, and if you believe, God bless you