I do think Space Vein has gone a bit far with his fantasies. Making Sexist jokes about real people is not funny! PERIOD! Cats can get carried away because they are sitting behind a screen and keyboard and they take on a different identity to hide behind or to live out their fantasies as rugged put it: "rugged_man is my alibi when im online,it does not mean im that individual " but they still need to watch what they say because real lives are affected. We also need to respect women more. I remember a couple of days ago I stubbled onto a thread here where cats were objectifying women. I stepped in and said something against it and cats were woken up by my comments about our mothers and sisters being those same women. I have never made any sexist comments on this forum but, I have also in the past made comments that if I feel, were inappropriate for whatever reason, I would edit. This is our community where we meet to talk, discuss, air our beefs, frustrations, and sometimes, as in all communities, things get out of hand. We are still very new to this. It is the responsibility of senior members of a community to step in when someone steps out of line, someone needs to say something. I find it quite tasteless that Space posts pics of amateur pron stars in these forums but who am I to judge. I am not perfect either. If it lessons the burden on Space, I would like to, on behalf of all the bullshit posters up in this forum, say sorry to Faith if we(Sexists, Men) have hurt your feelings. You are a brave writer and I certainly would like to see your work grow in future. Maybe you could even hook up some girls from the flats because it seems like only foreign girls do graf in Cape Town nowadays. It used to be different!