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Hip Hop Forums => General Discussion => Topic started by: Killa Merc on February 09, 2009, 04:15:55 PM
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So has anyone been cheated on up in this? has anyone ever had a relationship with someone after discovering that he / she's been played?
I’m in a situation where I’m not sure whether this chick got up to some mischief with some dude at a party last week. She disappeared for 10 mins going to the bathroom at some joint. So I go to the loo too, partly to check up on her and partly becoz I had to take a leak too. Just as I get there, ladies are screaming for her to open up . instead a guy walks out. Then a minute or two later she walks out. She claims the guy barged in when she saw her going he & she kicked him out. This is supposedly before I arrived. Issue is – whay did she disappear for so long – she says becoz there was a was a que outside the toilet. Which is right as that place was busy. Question 2 – how long were they together for in that toilet? She says less than a minute. Problem is I don’t know as I had just got there when he left. I lied saying I been there for minutes and she didn’t come out and she says I’m lying she went in for less than 3 minutes and he was there for less than a minute.
Anyway I believe she did something with that dude. Which is not that bad coz I have only known her for a few weeks so dumping her is not a problem. The issue is that I like her & wonder whether she could be right. Like I’m overreacting that indeed he barged him and she told him to leave. Tough one oz I really like that girl.She's beautiful, got a good sense of humour and I thought she's intelligent. Now she done messed up. or has she?
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She hasn't. I think she's telling the truth. Why would she risk doing something where you could easily find out? Let it slide... Relax nothing happened.
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Anyway I believe she did something with that dude.
me too. if you've only known her for a few weeks then u should keep your ear to the streets- dont forget background checks
*somethings fishy Merchant 8)
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If she wasn't in there for long, then the other chicks wouldn't have been banging on the door for her to open. They obviously knew what was happening.
Cut her loose.
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seeking validation on the net huh?
kick her to the curb..
if not for cheating.. then for taking a dump at a club..
aside: do women sit on 'em seats or squat & levitate above em?
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seeking validation on the net huh?
kick her to the curb..
if not for cheating.. then for taking a dump at a club..
aside: do women sit on 'em seats or squat & levitate above em?
BWAKAKAAAAKAKAKAAKAKAKAAK KWAAKAKAKAKAKAAKAKAKAKAKAKAKA ROFLMAO *dead* ;D :D ;D
To answer your questions you are not allowed to sit when using public toilets. NEVER.
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Question is would she do something like that in such a busy place?
She while she was getting a drink, this guy offered to get her a refill. She told me laughing about it. So I paid no mind to it coz I not an insecure control freak. Then she said I’m stepping outside for fresh air. 1st thing I did was to look whether that punk was still inside & saw him making stupid dance moves with his all male squad. Recall think how f’’’ed up their situation is. 5 grown a** guys in a circle on their own in a party with so many chicks around. Anyway, she was outside for a while & I wandered outside. Couldn’t find her so I called her and she showed up. I wasn’t monitoring the punk by then. My guard was down. 30 minutes later we decide to leave and at the door she says ‘ I have to go the loo before we leave” …. And then the rest is…. On my first post.
She still begging me to take her calls. To see her.to forgive her. saying she is not some cheap ho who would do something like that. saying i had known her for a while I would not even think it's possible for her to something like that. For a moment I thought of just ignoring the situation and considering her a short term chick i.e. dump her when I feel like it. Not sure whether it’s the best way out.
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Dude stop being ridiculous. The girl is innocent. But if you're only intending to take her back only to use her then don't bother just let her go.
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I dated this chick, got suspicious about 2 weeks into the relationship that some honesty was lacking, i let it slide and god did i regret it for almost 2 years mang, cut her loose before you get attached dood!
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I dated this chick, got suspicious about 2 weeks into the relationship that some honesty was lacking, i let it slide and god did i regret it for almost 2 years mang, cut her loose before you get attached dood!
Oh so now because you so happened to have dated some who was triffling Merch must lose out on an opportunity of a lifetime. Merch, you have no proof she was in there cheating,maybe she really was jus taking a dump and maybe those girls were jus acting funny who knows...
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aside: do women sit on 'em seats or squat & levitate above em?
something close to that.
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maybe she really was jus taking a dump...
i maintain these are grounds for an annulment..
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maybe she really was jus taking a dump...
i maintain these are grounds for an annulment..
Oh so would you rather she holds it in and then you guys go home and the minute she walks in you start kissing her and one thing leads to another and she takes a dump on your bed?
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Merch dont listen to Baldi, honestly bro, she did something with the dude. I dont think it was more than kissing though. It could have been more maybe if they had time but she definitely did something with the dude. I say go for the option of making her a temp chick. shes not to be trusted.
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I dont think it was more than kissing though.
She cud hav given dood a quick tease
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maybe she really was jus taking a dump...
i maintain these are grounds for an annulment..
Oh so would you rather she holds it in and then you guys go home and the minute she walks in you start kissing her and one thing leads to another and she takes a dump on your bed?
:D :D
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maybe she really was jus taking a dump...
i maintain these are grounds for an annulment..
Oh so would you rather she holds it in and then you guys go home and the minute she walks in you start kissing her and one thing leads to another and she takes a dump on your bed?
lmao..
even worse would be if u didn't know she was holding ish in & being all experimental attempted entering her exit hole..
;D
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The seed has been planted b,
quit while you are not invested...
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For your sake Merch I hope this wasnt at Party People.
Cos if it was I may well know who the guy is. And if it was I can already tell you that you may as well let her go...
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If she wasn't in there for long, then the other chicks wouldn't have been banging on the door for her to open. They obviously knew what was happening.
Cut her loose.
The other chicks were probably drunk, you'd be in a toilet for three seconds and they'll be banging on the door telling you to get out 'cause you've been there long. They do that all the times in chicks bathrooms @clubs believe me I know. I think you're just paranoid.
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I dated this chick, got suspicious about 2 weeks into the relationship that some honesty was lacking, i let it slide and god did i regret it for almost 2 years mang, cut her loose before you get attached dood!
I was in the same boat for three years. Always had trust issues. Found out later that the bitch was cheating on the regular. Shit cause a lot of problems for me in a subsequent relationship and even causes shit for me now, five years later.
I think Afterbirth may even know the chick.
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Question is would she do something like that in such a busy place?
Nyani, umcingela kakubi untwana wabantu. Yena makavele amyeke aye kwaba bangazuvalelwa ezitoilet ubusikhalazela apha ngento engekhoyo.
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Dude stop being ridiculous. The girl is innocent. But if you're only intending to take her back only to use her then don't bother just let her go.
WORD!!!!!!!!! I couldn't have said it better myself.
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this is probabley the best advice ive ever gave to a agian, to me this doesnt sound like cheating, it sounds more like two people having a one nigh stand in the toilets
kinda remindds me of some movie, this chick aint cheating on you, maybe she was too drunk and she felt like giving some dude a hike, but what i can say to you is that she did not cheat on you man, dont dump her im sure you old enogh to listen and think about her statement, if she was cheating on you she couldnt have done it that obviously and easily, theres just a misunderstanding on this whole situation dog
dont dump the chick man
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Oh my God you guys are such whiners " :'( Bitch broke my heart and now I'll never be the same again.I'll never love again, women are all the same" :'(
BOO HOO... Man the hell up, how many times have you cheated?My goodness let the girl have some fun.Let her break Merch's heart. Maybe he deserves it. Who knows.
Moving along, girls are not stupid. Cheating in a nasty bathroom with your girl at the same party is something only a guy would do. Listen to these guys, it was only after 2 or 3 years that they found out their girlfriends were cheating. You've only been together for two weeks, ninja please. You're a guy and I forgive you but this girl has not done anything YET.
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I don't cheat. Never.
If you are in a relationship where you have made a mutual decision to be monogamous, then you should honour that. Otherwise let her know that you wanna play the field and if she is cool with that, then run with it.
My situation was similar to yours, where I was outside listening to music on my headphones cos I hated the music in the club. Went back in to find the chick missing. Someone told me they saw her go out.
Found her outside on the way back in with some white dude.
I was pissed and we were together for about six months at the time, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt.
After we were together for 3 years I found out from one of my boys that she not only made out with that dude that night but hooked up with him again a few times, as well as with four other dudes.
Then the bitch has the nerve to act like it was no biggie, since she didn't f*** any of them but only made out with them. Even got pissed off with my boys for telling me and with me for f***ing a few of her friends afterwards.
But yeah, she caused a lot of issues cos my mom loved her and so did the rest of the fam. Then when I hooked up with my new ex, she told the parents and people a lot of lies and caused problems in our relationship by having other bitches call her and shit.
So, I say, cut her loose. Not worth the trouble of getting in any deeper and then regretting it.
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Oh my God you guys are such whiners " :'( Bitch broke my heart and now I'll never be the same again.I'll never love again, women are all the same" :'(
BOO HOO... Man the hell up, how many times have you cheated?My goodness let the girl have some fun.Let her break Merch's heart. Maybe he deserves it. Who knows.
Moving along, girls are not stupid. Cheating in a nasty bathroom with your girl at the same party is something only a guy would do. Listen to these guys, it was only after 2 or 3 years that they found out their girlfriend were cheating. You've only been together for two weeks, ninja please. You're a guy and I forgive you but this girl has not done anything YET.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA funny how it's okay when they do it to women as if we can handle it better, as if our hearts don't break gggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...................men can be soooooo selfish MY GOODNESS!!!
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Oh my God you guys are such whiners " :'( Bitch broke my heart and now I'll never be the same again.I'll never love again, women are all the same" :'(
BOO HOO... Man the hell up, how many times have you cheated?My goodness let the girl have some fun.Let her break Merch's heart. Maybe he deserves it. Who knows.
Moving along, girls are not stupid. Cheating in a nasty bathroom with your girl at the same party is something only a guy would do. Listen to these guys, it was only after 2 or 3 years that they found out their girlfriend were cheating. You've only been together for two weeks, ninja please. You're a guy and I forgive you but this girl has not done anything YET.
Baldi u should start charging for all this good advice,
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i agree with all the girls except p/enis. youre overreacting and you should just get over it. why is it that yall niggars get so possessive ova your chicks anyway? you aint in love yet so stop acting like it and if you like her so much you should give her the benefit of the doubt. she would probably do the same for you.
and if we're wrong dont worry youll get over it. ::)
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first of all the double standards arguement should be left to adolescents and pop songs. as adults, lets take people up as people. to say that all men cheat is a bullshit a**umption that normalizes it within popular culture, giving many of us incentive, if anything else.
secondly, i was all but ready to vouch with Baldi on this one.
until you said she's been "begging" you to take her calls. what kind of self-respecting woman would "beg" someone who not only refuses to trust her, but also doesn't consider her above grabbing her ankles for a random dude in a public restroom?
and she's known you for two weeks?
come on! she should be ignoring your calls!
at least until you come to your senses and admit yourself as being irredeemably insecure.
i mean what's next? an apology?
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first of all the double standards arguement should be left to adolescents and pop songs. as adults, lets take people up as people. to say that all men cheat is a bullshit a**umption that normalizes it within popular culture, giving many of us incentive, if anything else.
youre right there but for us girls most of the time it aint just a "bullshit a**umption". we've all gone through it and all our girls have gone through it so its kinda true most of the time.
and just cos ppl say that dont mean that yall niggars got to prove it right, i mean if you dont like that yall are being labelled and stereotyped, do something different = convincing all your boys to be faithful cos in this world of 6 billion, 1 dont make much of a difference....
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THIS is interesting
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Oh my God you guys are such whiners " :'( Bitch broke my heart and now I'll never be the same again.I'll never love again, women are all the same" :'(
BOO HOO... Man the hell up, how many times have you cheated?My goodness let the girl have some fun.Let her break Merch's heart. Maybe he deserves it. Who knows.
Moving along, girls are not stupid. Cheating in a nasty bathroom with your girl at the same party is something only a guy would do. Listen to these guys, it was only after 2 or 3 years that they found out their girlfriends were cheating. You've only been together for two weeks, ninja please. You're a guy and I forgive you but this girl has not done anything YET.
I'm sorry but how are you saying with that much certainty? its not like you were there when the incident happened?
basically most of us are saying if you start having trust issues with someone get out, because most people never let go once that feeling is there.
so unless you are basing him sticking with her on FACT...
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Oh my God you guys are such whiners " :'( Bitch broke my heart and now I'll never be the same again.I'll never love again, women are all the same" :'(
BOO HOO... Man the hell up, how many times have you cheated?My goodness let the girl have some fun.Let her break Merch's heart. Maybe he deserves it. Who knows.
Moving along, girls are not stupid. Cheating in a nasty bathroom with your girl at the same party is something only a guy would do. Listen to these guys, it was only after 2 or 3 years that they found out their girlfriends were cheating. You've only been together for two weeks, ninja please. You're a guy and I forgive you but this girl has not done anything YET.
I'm sorry but how are you saying with that much certainty? its not like you were there when the incident happened?
basically most of us are saying if you start having trust issues with someone get out, because most people never let go once that feeling is there.
so unless you are basing him sticking with her on FACT...
what if he's wrong and he loses the best thing to ever happen to him because he had "trust issues" which were not based on fact? i mean its not like he saw the niggar all up in her for him to have such deep suspicions. obviously he's also insecure if he cant just trust her word for it, i mean she said she didnt do it!
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youre right there but for us girls most of the time it aint just a "bullshit a**umption". we've all gone through it and all our girls have gone through it so its kinda true most of the time.
and just cos ppl say that dont mean that yall niggars got to prove it right, i mean if you dont like that yall are being labelled and stereotyped, do something different = convincing all your boys to be faithful cos in this world of 6 billion, 1 dont make much of a difference....
what the hell is this? I'ma make and a**umption and if you don't like it is up to you rectify it?
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Oh my God you guys are such whiners " :'( Bitch broke my heart and now I'll never be the same again.I'll never love again, women are all the same" :'(
BOO HOO... Man the hell up, how many times have you cheated?My goodness let the girl have some fun.Let her break Merch's heart. Maybe he deserves it. Who knows.
Moving along, girls are not stupid. Cheating in a nasty bathroom with your girl at the same party is something only a guy would do. Listen to these guys, it was only after 2 or 3 years that they found out their girlfriends were cheating. You've only been together for two weeks, ninja please. You're a guy and I forgive you but this girl has not done anything YET.
I'm sorry but how are you saying with that much certainty? its not like you were there when the incident happened?
basically most of us are saying if you start having trust issues with someone get out, because most people never let go once that feeling is there.
so unless you are basing him sticking with her on FACT...
what if he's wrong and he loses the best thing to ever happen to him because he had "trust issues" which were not based on fact? i mean its not like he saw the niggar all up in her for him to have such deep suspicions. obviously he's also insecure if he cant just trust her word for it, i mean she said she didnt do it!
who wants to be in relationship if you can't trust the other party? that is shitty relationship..from the jump
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I think Afterbirth may even know the chick.
expose her trifling a**.. or pm me her name..
& my apologies if i've ever tread on ur toes..
i only do it to prove to cats that their women are hoes..
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but why are you not trusting the other party becuase of something you "think" happened??? thats just stupid. what about her good qualities and everything that made him like her in the first place? lose all of that cos of one night of unfounded suspicion? and he was probably not sober and yall know how yall niggars be when yall aint sober!
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I think Afterbirth may even know the chick.
expose her trifling a**.. or pm me her name..
& my apologies if i've ever tread on ur toes..
i only do it to prove to cats that their women are hoes..
that is so typical male. yes typical MALE! do yall ever think about the fact that whoever you bangin on the side is sumone elses sum1? and then yall gon complain when that sum1 elses sum1 is your sum1. ncxa! i aint even gon say wat i wanna say cos i dont wanna start beef up in here
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I think Afterbirth may even know the chick.
expose her trifling a**.. or pm me her name..
& my apologies if i've ever tread on ur toes..
i only do it to prove to cats that their women are hoes..
that is so typical male. yes typical MALE! do yall ever think about the fact that whoever you bangin on the side is sumone elses sum1? and then yall gon complain when that sum1 elses sum1 is your sum1. ncxa! i aint even gon say wat i wanna say cos i dont wanna start beef up in here
beef away..
on the real though.. sum negroes just won't believe that their women are out there..
as part of my moral crusade to rid the world of c***a** whores- i take it upon myself to show ninjas the folly of their ways..
figured.. i'd get props for my endeavours..
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damn that pyro story is f***ed up, dude that chicked played your butt
f*** it ive taken another look at this story and something made me change my mind, this chick is a lying bitch, she cheated on you man and i know you dont wanna hear that.
shit is too obvious to see, i mean dude walks out of a toilet room which happens to be the same room that your chick walks out on few minutes later? just listen to the sound of this guys, obviously the dude was there for something, he could have never went there by mistake, theres no way in hell he can just go to the ladies room.
he knew he had some business to take care off and by the look of things he did, they knew if they did the whole shit up in the dudes room you might bump in or one of your homies might bump in and see the whole shit, so they knew in the ladies room theres no way in hell you can suspect a thing.
this was supposed to be a clean job, just thank god that you finally saw that you dealing with a hoe a** cheating bitch
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Now she says she would be mad at herself for a long time if she loses me over something that didn’t happen.
I might take a thing or two from the Book of Pyro - Maybe I’ll go after her friend . Her friend is also fine and might even like me. Problem is she’s too much of a control freak. Her friend just sent me a msg which makes me belive that I have a good chance of kicking it with her. Problem is she would want me to dump my girl before we kick it.
Being played or feeling like you’ve been played is a bitch! I don’t know how people continue with relationships after something like that. Is it love , dependency or what that keeps them together?
Baldi – thing is she disappeared twice on the same night. There’s definitely a reason why that happened.
Everyone who say’s I’m insecure you are missing the point. Nothing could be further from the truth. I let her chat / dance / with whoever because I a**ume that she likes me enough not to do take any of those cats seriously if I’m around. This dude even offered to buy her drinks and I jokingly said she must tell him to get me something as well.
Yeah that background check might reveal a thing or two. But I don’t know her friends from way back. She’s from different circles from mine so we have very few common acquaintances.
What a pity coz I haven’t liked a girl like this for a while now. You cant believe how many chicks I have let go. Oh.. and a week ago, I had decided to let another one go instead of letting her waste her time with me now I might have to rethink that.
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My dude. the thought has crept up, severe ties, else u will be in a fruitless limbo about whether she is or isnt doggin u. the whole duration of the relationship and err'time she dissapears u will be playing McGyver tryna figure out where shes going and what she doing etc.
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Real talk.
The seed of doubt has already been planted. Its called a seed for a reason. Because it grows. Meaning your suspicions will only get worse with time, regardless of whether she is cheating on you or not.
Let her go now while you are still unattached. Dont string her along only to let her go after she has invested real emotions into the relationship. That shit is wrong...
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@Merch
The shit is so obvious man it doesnt need CIA to crack it........that stupid girl played you......10 minutes is a very long tym 4 someone to dissapear.....and she has the nerve to say the guy just walked in the very same loo she was in.......get the f*** out of here.....what was the guy doing in the ladies room in the first place.....what, the dude was patrolling the loo area, bitch please......i hate a stupid chick who thinks that guys are too dum to smell a ho.......shit i can smell a ho before they even make it.......
Man im sorry to be talking like that about ur woman but the fact is she played ur a** whilst you were there......and to think that she would let another dude tap that a** while u r on the same joint just makes me angry........Do yourself a favour and liv her the f*** alone.....you can even make out with her friend.....shit you can do with some new a** now.......
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Merch let her go. You have issues and I think she shouldn't be subjected to it.
I've been to ladies bathroom during a party and that shit (no pun) can take forever. I honestly don't think this girl has done anything but let her go.
And so what she disappeared twice she needed to pee twice but I'm actually not gonna say anymore. Let her go.
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Merch let her go. You have issues and I think she shouldn't be subjected to it.
I've been to ladies bathroom during a party and that shit (no pun) can take forever. I honestly don't think this girl has done anything but let her go.
And so what she disappeared twice she needed to pee twice but I'm actually not gonna say anymore. Let her go.
you really take women so easily man, girls can be real bitches, tell me have you been ever played to death by a chick? you dont sound like a person talking from expirience, ask mad he can write a history book about being cheated by bitches
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come on B. we all know girls wait in long queues in the bathroom but the dude wouldnt have went inside without being led by the girl. lets say the girl didnt invite the dude in. In that case dont you think there must have been some level of flirting for him to have the courage to go in the girls toilets following the girl? Baldi be realistic man. its obvious that the girl was up to something with the dude. Merch doesnt need have see everything with his own eyes.
Its normal for someone to deny something till the end no matter how oobvious the truth is. I've been with a few people like that before and I've done it too. There is a chance that the girl really does genuinly dig you but it doesnt mean that she didnt or wont ever get up to some BS again. Especially because shes denying what happened.
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I think Afterbirth may even know the chick.
expose her trifling a**.. or pm me her name..
& my apologies if i've ever tread on ur toes..
i only do it to prove to cats that their women are hoes..
You didn't tread on my toes, don't worry.
I just figured you may know her cos you said you know Sali and those cats.
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looking at the situation again, this girl seems to be a proffessional big time hoe, shes good at what she does
i have a feeling that its not the first time shes cheating on you
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@ Merch
Dude, if i may ask, did u meet this chick at a club?/Is she a regular club girl?/How far ahead are you thinking with this chick? Cos it wud be such a bitch if you got the "bitch dependency" for a trifling hoe whose not worth the investment.
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its sad how you guys be disrespecting and callin her a bitch/ hoe when you dont even know her. and merch for you to let them when you wer kickin it with her not so long ago is a damn shame.
a damn shame i tell you. :(
and your solution to this is to kick it with her friend??? you have less morals than her even if she did cheat. :-[
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what if the friend is a decent person who stopped hanging with ehr due to her cheating and was there for you when you needed someone to talk to?
Does the fact that she was once friends with the cheating whore mean you have to let her go and rather find someone who you are unsure of?
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its sad how you guys be disrespecting and callin her a bitch/ hoe when you dont even know her.
cosign. shes a player rather. nuff respect for her game, made Merch doubt the truth while its staring him in the face.
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what if the friend is a decent person who stopped hanging with ehr due to her cheating and was there for you when you needed someone to talk to?
Does the fact that she was once friends with the cheating whore mean you have to let her go and rather find someone who you are unsure of?
oh, a friend who'll leave the "evil one" and suddenly be your comforter... that aint a friend thats a vulture. she be more dangerous...
and no1 said he should go with someone he's unsure of but the friend? and he didnt say the friend is an ex friend.
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what if the friend is a decent person who stopped hanging with ehr due to her cheating and was there for you when you needed someone to talk to?
Does the fact that she was once friends with the cheating whore mean you have to let her go and rather find someone who you are unsure of?
First unwritten rule to ex boyfriend. THEY ARE A NO GO AREA. Even if you were just for a day and even if she's the one who cheated. The girl that's more than willing to eat her "friends" leftovers is the one you should be weary of. Clearly she'll slap up anything.
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cosign with baldi
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Thats the most retarded rule ever.
I meant that the girls stopped being friends with her long before we broke up and I found out about the cheating. She doesn't tolerate that kind of shit, so does that mean she is a bad person?
I have a whole lot more respect for her than the one who stays loyal to the cheater.
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So you're telling me that NONE of your friend have ever cheated on their girls and that you won't mind if one of your friends have something with your ex.
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So you're telling me that NONE of your friend have ever cheated on their girls and that you won't mind if one of your friends have something with your ex.
yeah! huh huh?????
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heres a tip people.....dont trust women.....even yo mama
chicks are a**holes, i stopped believeing in god when my chick cheated on me with my cousin, in my house and in my bed
what the f***? :(
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Like I said, if I say I am in a one on one relationship, I don't cheat. so her cheating was enough reason for me to not care about any of her feelings. If me being with one of her friends hurts her, too bad, she should have thought about that when she was being a whore.
If one of my boys tries to get with my ex, its up to her, but she won't because all my friends are like brothers to her. If she does hook up with one, then its cool, as long as she is happy.
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mad shut up. you probably derserved it.
pyro, you still wrong ::)
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Don't get why dudes would make out with girls they don't know in the club. What if that girl has the germ or a psychotic boyfriend packing. I know enough brothers who got injured/killed coz of hoes (and I mean hoes). Merch, if that broad can play you while you're in the same building, imagine what she does when you're not around. She could be in the bathroom with some other loser as we speak. It's not worth it. You need issue a straight red card for your sake (health, etc.)
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@ Merch
Dude, if i may ask, did u meet this chick at a club?/Is she a regular club girl?/How far ahead are you thinking with this chick? Cos it wud be such a bitch if you got the "bitch dependency" for a trifling hoe whose not worth the investment.
No I did not get her at a club. We met trough a mutual friend. But we been clubbing together once or twice before we started kicking it. i was thinking of taking things seriously. you know I haven’t been serious with a girl for a while now since I broke up with my long term ex and the next one moved elsewhere. So i have basically been in flings. But I met her and liked her & thought of actually being serious. As I say, she's got it all. She is fun to be with, good looking, smart. Like what more can a brother ask for? oh.. and dont call her a bitch! I havent proved whether she is worthy of that title.
Baldi - you seem to be taking this to be a sisterhood thing / gender thing.
Casual - say more about what happened at Party People. you can even PM the gory details if any.
you know my stupidity was leaving the place after the incident. I should have chilled a bit longer and checked with the girls what it is that they saw.
Mad – I think you were right when you said – I haven’t been cheated on, it was just a one night stand. But that don’t make it right.
Murphy’s law –the ones that you like will always f*** you up. (oh.. and f*** some other dudes too)
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Casual - say more about what happened at Party People. you can even PM the gory details if any.
no man let him say it all here. we're trying to help you here.
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Don't get why dudes would make out with girls they don't know in the club. What if that girl has the germ or a psychotic boyfriend packing. I know enough brothers who got injured/killed coz of hoes (and I mean hoes).
I know what you mean. I was confornted by some gun wielding dude for hollaring at some chick. And it was them violent house music mofos.Fortunatelyhe cooled down and put his gun back.it helped that i was rolling mad deep. i never want to see that chick again. This time I was on my own and the dude was rolling mad deep.My gat was in the whip. Ok, I dont carry no guns. i'm not gangsterlicious or anything like that.
Merch, if that broad can play you while you're in the same building, imagine what she does when you're not around. She could be in the bathroom with some other loser as we speak. It's not worth it. You need issue a straight red card for your sake (health, etc.)
Thank goodness I always use rubbers unless I know a chick for a long a** time and we serious and we have been tested. That AIDS ish is scary.
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Here i am thinking Ag is Dead,how wrong i was. LMAO. Damn! tricks never seize to amaze me. YES MERCHANT THEY WERE HAVING A QUICKIE IN LOO,BUT I DONT KNOW WHETHER IT WAS A DOGGY STYLE OR SHE WAS STANDING lol. So Merchant we get the point you like her and all that but Have you Tapped that a** yet? Coz thats what count .
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ask mad he can write a history book about being cheated by bitches
Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
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Have you Tapped that a** yet? Coz thats what count .
Yeahhh. Could be why i dont want to leave her like that. She can handle biz.
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Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
Make that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
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Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
Make that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
BWAKAKAKAKAKAKAKA!!! now dats funny...
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Have you Tapped that a** yet? Coz thats what count .
Yeahhh. Could be why i dont want to leave her like that. She can handle biz.
You gone man, the "good pussy dependency" has been planted, that right thurr is what gets many a man, Ayeye!
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Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
Make that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
what did i do to deserve this?
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Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
Make that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
what did i do to deserve this?
You wa bornz ( Just thought I'd put it in a language you'll understand.)
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Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
Make that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
what did i do to deserve this?
You wa bornz ( Just thought I'd put it in a language you'll understand.)
HAHAHAHA! Leave Mr Fede alone. how are the studies going Mad?
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If this is not an admission that she did something stupid with that punk, then I’m paranoid.
I should have mentioned that one of her defence lines is – “you never told me that you want to be serious with me. You have never told me what you want from this. I’m the one who always does this, does that…blah blah blah.” Which is true. But I cant be on some til death do us part tip when we have just started kickin it. I think that line reveals that she didn’t think I was serious and thought she could do anything in a club. In other words, she thought maybe I was just after a fling and did not think she would be risking much.
Am I paranoid or is this an admission of guilt. Not an explicit admission but sorta like someone who says if you report me, I’ll reveal information about you as well.
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Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
Make that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
what did i do to deserve this?
You wa bornz ( Just thought I'd put it in a language you'll understand.)
do you think that is easy to understand? u dont realy know the meaning of the word understand dont you?
Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
Make that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
what did i do to deserve this?
You wa bornz ( Just thought I'd put it in a language you'll understand.)
HAHAHAHA! Leave Mr Fede alone. how are the studies going Mad?
the studies? i swear to god im going to kill any person who reminds me of my studies again, now i have to see psychologist again....damn
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Cues slum village's "Whoes ", SMH
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If this is not an admission that she did something stupid with that punk, then I’m paranoid.
I should have mentioned that one of her defence lines is – “you never told me that you want to be serious with me. You have never told me what you want from this. I’m the one who always does this, does that…blah blah blah.” Which is true. But I cant be on some til death do us part tip when we have just started kickin it. I think that line reveals that she didn’t think I was serious and thought she could do anything in a club. In other words, she thought maybe I was just after a fling and did not think she would be risking much.
Am I paranoid or is this an admission of guilt. Not an explicit admission but sorta like someone who says if you report me, I’ll reveal information about you as well.
A week? Come on get over her dawg. She may be fly/clever/and 'everything, but ain't worth to f*** wif your mind like this son. On Ag nog al
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do you think that is easy to understand? u dont realy know the meaning of the word understand dont you?
No I don't and I'm sorry.
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Theres another option. let her know that its fine and you're sorry for not being clear on your intentions and you dont blame her for flirting with someone else because of that. But tell her you need her to be honest with you so you can move on. im sure you get where im going with this.
that way she'll be comfortable to admit what i believe she did. if she admits then give her a chance but one thing thats a problem though, if she really did something she went and did it in the females toilets, no offence but it sounds skankish.
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Theres another option. let her know that its fine and you're sorry for not being clear on your intentions and you dont blame her for flirting with someone else because of that. But tell her you need her to be honest with you so you can move on. im sure you get where im going with this.
RR might be onto something.
Beesting. i meant a short while. not a week as in 7 days you dig? maybe two weeks, but know her for like a month or so. look i count from the 1st time we....and she counts from the 1st time we met. so for her it's a bit longer.
Anyway, whoever said I must do a background check was right. Your past actions only show your character. she once admitted that she broke up with her 1st boyfriend coz she cheated on him.She said she was still immature, etc & it was her 1st year at varsity so she was a bit over the place.
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I think Afterbirth may even know the chick.
expose her trifling a**.. or pm me her name..
& my apologies if i've ever tread on ur toes..
i only do it to prove to cats that their women are hoes..
that is so typical male. yes typical MALE! do yall ever think about the fact that whoever you bangin on the side is sumone elses sum1? and then yall gon complain when that sum1 elses sum1 is your sum1. ncxa! i aint even gon say wat i wanna say cos i dont wanna start beef up in here
LOL word up, this discussion has got me blowing steam off my ears, every time I open my mouth I get labelled as a feminist so I'm just gonna try to shurrruup!!
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I think Afterbirth may even know the chick.
expose her trifling a**.. or pm me her name..
& my apologies if i've ever tread on ur toes..
i only do it to prove to cats that their women are hoes..
that is so typical male. yes typical MALE! do yall ever think about the fact that whoever you bangin on the side is sumone elses sum1? and then yall gon complain when that sum1 elses sum1 is your sum1. ncxa! i aint even gon say wat i wanna say cos i dont wanna start beef up in here
beef away..
on the real though.. sum negroes just won't believe that their women are out there..
as part of my moral crusade to rid the world of c***a** whores- i take it upon myself to show ninjas the folly of their ways..
figured.. i'd get props for my endeavours..
Okay okay so who should rid the world of trifflin men??????????????????
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damn that pyro story is f***ed up, dude that chicked played your butt
f*** it ive taken another look at this story and something made me change my mind, this chick is a lying bitch, she cheated on you man and i know you dont wanna hear that.
shit is too obvious to see, i mean dude walks out of a toilet room which happens to be the same room that your chick walks out on few minutes later? just listen to the sound of this guys, obviously the dude was there for something, he could have never went there by mistake, theres no way in hell he can just go to the ladies room.
he knew he had some business to take care off and by the look of things he did, they knew if they did the whole shit up in the dudes room you might bump in or one of your homies might bump in and see the whole shit, so they knew in the ladies room theres no way in hell you can suspect a thing.
this was supposed to be a clean job, just thank god that you finally saw that you dealing with a hoe a** cheating bitch
All I heard there was "blah blah blah.....I'm a dirty fag" shurrrrrrrrrrup!!!!!!!!!!!
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Real talk.
Let her go now while you are still unattached. Dont string her along only to let her go after she has invested real emotions into the relationship. That shit is wrong...
Finally a man with a heart.
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You seem to miss the point that he may also end up investing a lot of emotion, which it seems he already has if he is on AG asking for advice.
I wouldn't ask you people for shit.
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Okay okay so who should rid the world of trifflin men??????????????????
You know girl I'm all for optimism but those mofos multiply faster than plaque on a homeless persons tooth.
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mad shut up. you probably derserved it.
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha co-sign!!!!!
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Working title, 'Mad: Cheated by Bitches Since Birth"
ke that since before birth. I think his mom cheated him of oxygen while he was in the womb.
what did i do to deserve this?
You wa bornz ( Just thought I'd put it in a language you'll understand.)
You wa bornz hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaah ROFLMFAO!!!!!
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
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Ha ha your a** got played.
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
Average woman's playing game >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> your most hardened and skillfull dude on top of his playing game
best believe that. have no illusions
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cold as ice Baldi lol
That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
great dude. keep playing safe though as you already do.
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Ha ha your a** got played.
Now you agree that lady is a player.........you were busy being Lucas Radebe for that hoe.....Jesus :'( :'( women.........kutheni ningamaxoki kangaka nje
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& a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe..
why not though..
if u don't believe she is.. then u have no reason to ditch her..
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Ha ha your a** got played.
Now you agree that lady is a player.........you were busy being Lucas Radebe for that hoe.....Jesus :'( :'( women.........kutheni ningamaxoki kangaka nje
Cues " I learn from the best. :Whitney Houston."
And Mprofeti guys defend guys all the time and they don't even flinch. I was giving the girl the benefit of the doubt.
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Ha ha your a** got played.
Now you agree that lady is a player.........you were busy being Lucas Radebe for that hoe.....Jesus :'( :'( women.........kutheni ningamaxoki kangaka nje
Cues " I learn from the best. :Whitney Houston."
Whatever Baldi
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
But dude, if you game really well, keep that rum for occasional sipping, just don't go alchoholic and shit....
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
But dude, if you game really well, keep that rum for occasional sipping, just don't go alchoholic and shit....
^^ He tells no lies...this man.
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
But dude, if you game really well, keep that rum for occasional sipping, just don't go alchoholic and shit....
^^ He tells no lies...this man.
SMH...
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
But dude, if you game really well, keep that rum for occasional sipping, just don't go alchoholic and shit....
All i gotta say is be like Johnnie Walker nucca keep walking don't do no moon walks here...
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And merch, go smack some a** just to forget about her it works.
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
But dude, if you game really well, keep that rum for occasional sipping, just don't go alchoholic and shit....
Its been a minute without hearing truth in this pure form.
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KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
I could be wrong. But I was with a friend who dissapeared into the bathroom with a broad at Party People. He went into the bathroom and lets just say he came back smiling. He is pretty promiscuous so I wasnt surprised at all... made mention of something to do with 'head'... Im not saying this was your girl... but if it was at PP then.... might could be..
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
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made mention of something to do with 'head'...
lol
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
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KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
I could be wrong. But I was with a friend who dissapeared into the bathroom with a broad at Party People. He went into the bathroom and lets just say he came back smiling. He is pretty promiscuous so I wasnt surprised at all... made mention of something to do with 'head'... Im not saying this was your girl... but if it was at PP then.... might could be..
:D
[Yeezy]how could you be so heartleesss?[/Yeezy]
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if people were getting paid for hating and being retarded many south african men and women would be on the cover of forbes magazine, im telling you, you people would be millionaires
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KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
I could be wrong. But I was with a friend who dissapeared into the bathroom with a broad at Party People. He went into the bathroom and lets just say he came back smiling. He is pretty promiscuous so I wasnt surprised at all... made mention of something to do with 'head'... Im not saying this was your girl... but if it was at PP then.... might could be..
:D
[Yeezy]how could you be so heartleesss?[/Yeezy]
hey Merch, you could have asked him to pm you this info!!
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
Did you kiss the lady after she came out of the loo or on the same night? ??? ???
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
Leave your wife home ninja hahaha
who is perfoming next at PP?
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if people were getting paid for hating and being retarded many south african men and women would be on the cover of forbes magazine, im telling you, you people would be millionaires
damn, rapes. they finally broke you down, huh?
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
Leave your wife home ninja hahaha
who is perfoming next at PP?
trick loosss!!!
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
shem..
keep ur head up though..
nothing a few milk stout quartz can't fix..
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
shem..
keep ur head up though..
nothing a few milk stout quartz can't fix..
LMAO
eish kanene, inxeba lendoda alihlekwa!!!! ;D ;D ;D
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Know your punctuation marks. there's a difference between Party People and party, people. I never said this happened at Party People. I said it was at a party, people!
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Know your punctuation marks. there's a difference between Party People and party, people. I never said this happened at Party People. I said it was at a party, people!
I still think you should have murked her.
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Know your punctuation marks. there's a difference between Party People and party, people. I never said this happened at Party People. I said it was at a party, people!
Hahaha. You should be smacking everyone for that.
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
Did you kiss the lady after she came out of the loo or on the same night? ??? ???
I guess we'll never know will we.
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Ha ha your a** got played.
Now you agree that lady is a player.........you were busy being Lucas Radebe for that hoe.....Jesus :'( :'( women.........kutheni ningamaxoki kangaka nje
I could say the same about you no good, dogs!!
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That’s it. I’ll let her go. I went MacGyver on her and her friend told me that she kissed some random white dude in a club a early this year because she “felt like kissing a white dude”. I mean come on! It’s obvious she’s a better player than some guys could ever be. And there is no such thing as maybe she would change if she likes you. A player is always a player & a hoe is always ….. & I’m not saying she’s a hoe. Anyway, thanks for the advice. Yes, that includes you Mad. KasualT I would have loved to get the confirmation but I got the message the 1st time b.
What a pity! I’m again in the market full time. Ladies, be warned! It’s play or be played once again.
But dude, if you game really well, keep that rum for occasional sipping, just don't go alchoholic and shit....
Its been a minute without hearing truth in this pure form.
Says the alcoholic!!!
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@ merch: tell us.. was this at party people?
well was it? come out with it already
I said this before - It was at a Party, people!
Did you kiss the lady after she came out of the loo or on the same night? ??? ???
I guess we'll never know will we.
I wish for Merch's sake he didnt kiss the lady.......bcoz now there is a lady who allegedly gave head to a dude in the loo.......chances are its the same suspect we r talking about, and to think someone would kiss a hoe right after she gave brains (head) to another dude is sick........