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Anybody doing the Public Enemy gig? Think it's at the Alex Theatre and I think it's today.
word? who went. How was the show?!!
I'm guessing nobody here went. Apparently Chuck D dissed Siz at the press conference on Thursday coz of his american accent.
More on this please...
Only black women under the age of 40...and without doctorates...Hahahahahahahahahahahaha but I thought on AG "bitch" and "ho" where synonyms for "black woman", when did this change?Yeah Dr Mamphela Ramphela was Steve Biko's bitch.NIGGER WHAT THE f*** IS WRONG WITH YOU?
WHERE THE f*** IS THE RESPECT MAN?
Yeah Dr Mamphela Ramphela was Steve Biko's bitch.NIGGER WHAT THE f*** IS WRONG WITH YOU?
plus this document is suspect. this is bullshitThat's what I thought too...
Just some random shit that blinked on my mind......wouldnt it be cool if we start a thread where each agian posts his shits i.e face, car, collections? w would know the kind of a**holes we ealing with here. it wud make this site more fun.No!
^^^if u don't mind me asking, why don't you want to do the circumcision?
the question should be why do they want me to do circumcision? everybody who trying to explain why i need to do hasn't given me a good enough reason for me to do it.
So awuzokoluka chief? nja!!
case in point
Uyinja ke qha... four nyawo... juvi.. janki... usi skapi njandini.. masende'bhokhwe..if you pm me a pic of ijwabu(foreskin) yakho ill deposit R50 into your bank account!! Its been a while since ndilibona...
no manhood characteristics to shine on that you are so desperate and dumb to try to find it under the shade of my foreskin.
Huh?
Dont know what that was suppozd to be.. But whatever you intended it to be, it didnt work...
ask a real man to translate it for you little boy.
Why would you pay for punani if you got a mouth nigga.. I mean c'mon..I take it you suck your own dick then...?
Ive spent +- R1700.00 ever since i met my girl in Oct.....does it mean shes selling that??Why are you even counting this nucca?
nah nigga, i cant just go this december, just mentioned that i have met my fathers side of the fam for the first time recently so theres still the issue of crossing over or not crossing over. then again, because of their religion certain parts of the custom are excluded so im not comfortable with that. its gonna be a tough one.
This is strangeness to my mind...Cos one would think @ 30 and having spent time with Xhosas, you woulda realised the significance of ulwaluko...What about fam? havent your uncles,pops, big bro's or even friends spoken to you about this?
I don't get it...Werent you one of the cats who called Mad "Jwabulani"?
Look I'm not gon diss or judge I just wanna understand this...Cos personally I never questioned it, It was something I looked forward to after matric, Something That I not only HAD to do, but something I WANTED to do...It was my culture and that's it!
If I'm being personal forgive me bro, I just dont understand being a 30 Year old Xhosa boy...
BTW I've seen a 56 year old mkhwetha...not a good look! so might wanna check yourself...
I thought it was no secret here on AG that Im Xhosa and never went for circumcision. I don't know how many times I've spoken about this here. I dont think I ever called Mad Jwabulani, if I did, you might have to maybe check the context at which I did.
To respond to the rest of what you said. Thats the thing with the Xhosa definition of manhood and respect, I don't relate to it at all. I respect a lot about my culture and I follow the customs and tradition now but the reasons explained to me as into why I should do it don't appeal to me at all.
I have just met my fathers side of the family for the first time, now i have to deal with his older brothers about this issue and i was told by one of them straight up that it will come to me being forced to do it. I've only met him about a month ago but this seems to be the most important/worrying issue for him. He strikes me as a good person but the authority in which he already thinks he has over me and that decision is really something else.
From both sides of the family, I know there will come a time where I will be caught sleeping. I'm sure you know what I mean.
I have made a decision to go though, that was after panic's comment. now choosing a side (father's or mothers) by which i should do is going to be a real challenge.
had a great friend, my best friend at the time, he went for circumcision, when he came out he let me know the custom doesnt allow him to befriend him. the friendship ended like that. another very close friend of mine from way back did the same before him too. he told me he cannot befriend me after he returned from the bush.
any of you all dude mind commenting on this?
Simple...ikwekwe yinja...
Its just a rule chap and its based on the fact you are now a man and are supposed to disa**ociate yourself with all things "boyish", Hence you get rid of all your old clothes and boyish habits (Imikhwa)
Plus you wont get the same respect from other men if ikwekwe ikubiza ngegama and you allow it...Imagine your boy callin you "Ta RR" or as you put it in CT "Bhuter" as he is supposed to...
I imagined something deep :-/
Nah nothin deep about it man...Its all ultimately about respect, and nothing's more important kuwe xa ulikrwala than respect...
If I may ask...how old are you bro? Have you ever lived in a township/village?
I'm from the township, Gugs. I lived in a village for one year when I was seven. Im 30
had a great friend, my best friend at the time, he went for circumcision, when he came out he let me know the custom doesnt allow him to befriend him. the friendship ended like that. another very close friend of mine from way back did the same before him too. he told me he cannot befriend me after he returned from the bush.
any of you all dude mind commenting on this?
Simple...ikwekwe yinja...
Its just a rule chap and its based on the fact you are now a man and are supposed to disa**ociate yourself with all things "boyish", Hence you get rid of all your old clothes and boyish habits (Imikhwa)
Plus you wont get the same respect from other men if ikwekwe ikubiza ngegama and you allow it...Imagine your boy callin you "Ta RR" or as you put it in CT "Bhuter" as he is supposed to...
I imagined something deep :-/
had a great friend, my best friend at the time, he went for circumcision, when he came out he let me know the custom doesnt allow him to befriend him. the friendship ended like that. another very close friend of mine from way back did the same before him too. he told me he cannot befriend me after he returned from the bush.
any of you all dude mind commenting on this?
