they just have this tendency of jumpin outta nowhere and start playin on your emotions ...again and it is never the ones that you dont give shit bout its always the ones that you not completely over why i hate this! f*** him and all the other mathaf***ers!!!!
This is what Im thinking girl ( might just do it myself ) do this right, if you bump into the guy again and you like what you see then take he's number call him that same night ( that way he'll think you really want him, which you do, but not keep him ) ask him " wanna meet some where? " if he says "No" never use the number again if he says "Yes" fck him and fck him good then you still never use the number again. make him feel used and when I mean used I mean be taugh.Have sex at ur place or a hotel and leave after you got yours even if he didnt. Then you send him a text msg every full, blue moon to say "hey" but never hook up again as some men dont mind being used and besides you got what you wanted theres nothing more a guy like himself can offer you.
Dont know much about Mpho's particular situation, but i do know that 98% of the time when an ex tries to make a return its usually a sex thing, and its also the easiest way of getting your ego stroked especially when they're the ones who f***ed up in the first place...
I therefore dont think that sleeping with the dude will sovle anything, it has the potencial of blowing up in your face cause you'll be putting yourself in a position where you might get hurt all over again, and he would have won...
best way to get back at an ex, is by being nice to them while at the same time making it clear to them that you want nothing to do with them.
However, sex with an ex can be fire, just as long as there's an understanding that its just sex for old times sake...and this will require that you put all feelings aside and kill all hope that you might as a result end up getting back together as this will complicate things.
My 2cents worth...