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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 25, 2010, 09:24:33 AM »
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 25, 2010, 09:08:25 AM »Marriage is the most f***ed up idea ever. The level of compromise required in these long term relationships is just...shit...you can't even quantify it! For real tho...'til death do us part'...does anybody understand the gravity of that statement? There is so much bullshit likely to happen between date of marriage and date of death (or divorce, whichever comes first, and even that isn't always a clean escape) that you literally do not know what you're getting yourself into.
I think peoples need to stop watching these romantic comedies. Movies about REAL relationships, showcasing REAL marital problems should be the order of the day, so that people make informed decisions. Peeps need to revisit their idea of what 'love' is. Having seen several f***ed up marriages, I'm not tryna wife anbody any time soon. No siree...
(that being said, at this point, I'm not tryna be 35 and alone.)
We've spoken about this before and I still cosign.
I've changed so much in the last year, how much more in 30 or 40 years?
Compromise was the secret of lasting marriages before but I notice usually one party compromises their a** off while the other pushes their way.
Or maybe I just need to be exposed to great marriages where people are actually happy and wouldn't want to escape their lot? I need to learn from those people.
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 21, 2010, 04:02:02 PM »
@Bobby, here goes:
Brick, you actually don't want a hook up.
She's currently living with a married man from Zimbabwe. Recently she stabbed him because she found sms's she didn't like on his phone.
Basically the 2nd marriage didn't work because the guy was 'a beast' in her own words. He used to cheat on her in full view of everyone and used to beat her in public often. She married the dude after 3 months of dating him. Go figure.
She's a tenderpreneur, that's why she has large lump sums.
Brick, you actually don't want a hook up.
She's currently living with a married man from Zimbabwe. Recently she stabbed him because she found sms's she didn't like on his phone.
Basically the 2nd marriage didn't work because the guy was 'a beast' in her own words. He used to cheat on her in full view of everyone and used to beat her in public often. She married the dude after 3 months of dating him. Go figure.
She's a tenderpreneur, that's why she has large lump sums.
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 21, 2010, 02:46:26 PM »
But seriously, I'm alarmed at the number of people who had happy, expensive weddings in their early to mid twenties and were divorced by 30. I know a girl whose been divorced TWICE by 30.
Mind you she gave the 2nd husband money for lobola, paid for their R 200,000 wedding, paid for his car and clothing accounts as well as his child support for 4 kids he had with other women. All to be married.
Mind you she gave the 2nd husband money for lobola, paid for their R 200,000 wedding, paid for his car and clothing accounts as well as his child support for 4 kids he had with other women. All to be married.
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 21, 2010, 02:27:34 PM »its crazy however, the number of divoced / single moms in the 25 - 35 age group is quite disturbing!
I refuse to get involved with a woman with a kid if she is mot "mature" but the bulk of females that a 31 year
ends hanging with and screwing is that sad statistic...single moms looking to get that second kid and settle down!
Sure i'd probably have more fun with Anna and the sex, well it would be different, but then the Anna type are
still far from wating to have a kid and still vegiterian and still learning more bout themslelf which is beautiful!
TILL along came a RR looking like a harmless sheep yet ALAS!!!!! its a wolf in weaved wool...
the BOOOOOOOM ... Anna is a baby momma... !
sad really!
I rebuke this in the name of Zeus!!!!
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« on: October 21, 2010, 01:32:50 PM »23? dude!
am I even allowed to drop sexual innuendo while speaking to you without being charged with some form of underage shit attached
LOL!
dude! you've probably dropped innuendo on many a 23 yr old knowingly or unknowingly.
girls younger than me have probably dated you or your friends.
kanti Brick how old are you?
Refuses to bite!
I got a 7year kid do the math!
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One of my girlfriends has a 7 year old at 23.
But I see your point.
Uyekele ukuzenza ikhehla nawe kodwa.
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 21, 2010, 12:58:59 PM »23? dude!
am I even allowed to drop sexual innuendo while speaking to you without being charged with some form of underage shit attached
LOL!
dude! you've probably dropped innuendo on many a 23 yr old knowingly or unknowingly.
girls younger than me have probably dated you or your friends.
kanti Brick how old are you?
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 21, 2010, 11:15:49 AM »
I see. Goodluck finding her.
I'm 23 so marriage is far from my mind, let alone babies...O.o
I'm 23 so marriage is far from my mind, let alone babies...O.o
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« on: October 21, 2010, 10:18:39 AM »I don't see the reson to get marrid before 35..i honestlt don't i don't live by rules BUT..
"wemzukulu uphi umkoti?" is a question i am tired of hearing!
Do you want to get married ever?
If not, will you do it just ukujabulisa umndeni?
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 21, 2010, 10:07:03 AM »
Close enough.
Don't feel bad. I reckon people should hold off as long as possible on marriage.
Things are shifting that way anyway.
Don't feel bad. I reckon people should hold off as long as possible on marriage.
Things are shifting that way anyway.
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 21, 2010, 09:55:52 AM »Why do I have a sudden guilty feeling for not having a house and not being married does that mean I'm succumbing to societal pressure/expectations or am I getting old?.....I always been that don;t give a fcuk kinda nigga since primary school I never did/dressed/played like anybody do even in my adult life I always hate doing things cause they are expected of me at a certain age
I take it you're over 30 with no kids?
Rare indeed.
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 20, 2010, 12:50:53 PM »Suppose you chose the wrong god?
What if god doesn't care what we believe?
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General Discussion / Re: AMASIKO NEZITHETHE NEENDLELA ZOKUZIPHATHA KWAXHOSA
« on: October 20, 2010, 06:50:02 AM »some deep transkei shit goin on here. i pity the non-xhosa agian.
Hhayi, cha kunzima ngempela!
Kwenzeke kanjani ukuthi kugcwale amaXhosa amangaka kule site?
Kuyamangaza!
Brick! We've got work to do... Lol.
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General Discussion / Re: Random Thoughts
« on: October 19, 2010, 09:55:49 AM »Can someone explain something to me about vegiterians...i am in fact talking to you Anna.
I was reading a shoutout where you say you like vegiterian style chien strips or something.
I wanna know coz I ate vergitatrien shrip ...and its tasted just like Soya.
are all these vegiterian style chickens, sausages, steaks etc just Soya shaped like chicken wings?
Pretty much, my dude.
I try not to get too dependant on the soya, but I'll f*** a soya schnitzel up!
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General Discussion / Re: Male Rape.....of the good kind
« on: October 18, 2010, 05:55:12 PM »
I won't bother clicking.
I'm an empath, that shit would stay in my system for days f***in with me.
No,sir.
I'm an empath, that shit would stay in my system for days f***in with me.
No,sir.