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« on: November 02, 2006, 03:25:29 PM »
female friends i have enuff, not too many cos its hard to sustain friendships with too many women. and when i say friendship i mean it serously not sum casual random xperience. I have no issues with my girls, luv them to bits. its the males im struggling to figure out. iv had plenty male friends and still do. my problem is that in the past, and even now, i feel like they arent sincere in their friendship. i mean, we'll start off as friends everythings all good, hang out all the time, smoke up, drink, listen 2 music, cook, party, picnic etc etc etc. then before u know it he's confessing his undying love for me which i can sumtimes handle cos obviously when spending a lotta time with sum1 feelings can arise, and sumtimes it cant be helped. What erks me is when the dude now suddenly wants to get in my pants. Maybe in those cases im just naive and believe sum1 wants to be friends only to find out they dont ,they just wanna hit it. But whats a girl to do when this keeps happening, as a result a lotta my friendships have been ruined cos im a one man woman, and even if i wasnt im not going to engage in sum casual meaningless sex with someone whos supposedly my friend. so my question is can males and females reall have a platonic friendship without sumone sumwhere along the line develping feelings for the otha...physical or otherwise???or am i just cursed...
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