I got a few gay friends...
One gay friend has been my friend since I been alive, we are from the same hood, when we were growing up boys always teased him about going around with a teddy bear, and always wanting to be the mother when we played house and for wearing his mom's duke and pretending its a skirt, so he found comfort in hanging with the girls. Now he is a grown a** gay man_ a** being the operative word
Another gay friend of mine I acquired during my Technikon days, I guess we just clicked probably because he aspired to have what I had (vagina tehehe) and as fate would have it we worked for the same company in Cpt. And the friendship grew from strength to strength. He is funny, he calls a dick lunch, if its a white man's dick, he calls it pink lunch ;-)
Then there is a 40 year old gay friend of mine, we met through friends and this one is all expirienced and shit. In his sick mind he thinks all men have a little gay person hidden inside them, just waiting for him to unleash the gayness, can you believe it? So whenever one of the girls brings a new guy, he always gives them the 'test', to see how gay they are, obviously the guy who is being tested doesnt know.
So then he says all the homophobic people or those that are uncomfortable in a gay man's presence are that way because they are afraid that the gay person in their vicinity mirrors the latter's true self. Being Gay that is.
Riddiculous shit I tell you