Dude, sorry 2 tell u this but Iam a Xhosa girl/woman and for me its socially and morally and politically incorrect to go out with an uncircumsised boy, thats what u are if awolukanga. And you know it, its not us man its the socity we live in they havent yet made the shift, paradime shift, thinking out of the box. And sad but true its the way we were raised.
And were did you grow up? whats the name of the place that made u to be so unreal, hello ungumxhosa amaxhosa ayoluka and uyayazi uba wolukele esibhedlele kuzakuthwa ulilulwane.
Id advise you to go to the bush get it over and done with I promise u, u will have a far better lifestyle and realtionship with other Xhosa man.
LOL