Okay, i think what happened with that chick in that interview, is that she wanted to speak English............ but was told to respond in vernac........... so to prove that she speaks English fluently with high pitched vowels...... she had to speak Xhosa with a phucked-up accent and avoid words with clicks at all costs....................................................................................... :idea:
If it is as you put it, it sounds like the girls ashamed of where she comes from. I've met a lot of these kinds of people in the past but less frequently now than then.
Some of my Xhosa people seem to be ashamed to speak their language because of the clicks. Or other people from cultures who seem to think their language sounds better because they have less clicks. :? stupid. The most recent case of this is this girl who was invited by these guys I was chilling with in Bloem. Her name is Babalwa and she's Xhosa but she speaks Sotho/Tshwana and she claims she can understand and speak Zulu but doesnt understand Xhosa. What the f*** is that?? If you understand basic Zulu you understand basic Xhosa. The same applies to Sotho and Tshwana.
For some reason I took it personal and wanted to give my opinion about what I think she should know about where she and I come from but i was afraid I might embarra** this girl that I dont even know that well. who am I to do that anyway.
This self-hatred is a result of judging our selves too much by western standards to the point where we even think other African languages are better than others cause they have no clicks (just like English). It is true, for me, that there are languages that sound more beautiful than others to the ear but it doesn’t mean that they’re better. AND it doesn’t make you any better than anyone else.
off topic: what's up with this thing about everybody else not wanting to date a Xhosa guy? Funny enough I've dated girls (Zulu, foreign, etc) who have the same issue. what's up with that?