Dude, since you seem like you not in love with your girl, so why are you stuck with her?
It's like you doin' it for your and her parents. To be honest, I don't see no love right here. I think you scared to go get your murk on. Like Habbit said, a lot of chicks may be feeling you already.
And ma advice, whenever you think you are foreign somewhere get yourself some local support, cos surely there'ly be plently local supply of anything, anytime. In other words, get a local chick, she's well provided (home, work, or whatever)