tell dude, ofcourse it wont be easy, but the more its delayed, the more complex ish will get... which is something im sure you understand. dude will just have to go thru all the emotions of a broken heart and so forth, but better to be alone, than in a destructive relationship, based on lies!!!!! WAIT I JUST SAID LIES... in fact let me retract that, it aint a relationship if its based on lies... clearly dude has a lot to offer, tell him, let him heal, and move on to find something that wont be a sham. he's better off without this confused woman!...