And a proposal then validates that they are " the one". What happens if he wakes up tomorrow and decides actually I made a mistake. Is he then still the one? I don't want to wake up one day and get married but I don't want that whole he's my fiancé for 20 years thing.
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What if then you get married and still he realisez he made a mistake?
Then what do you want or should I say how to you want ur bf to let you know he wants to marry you and how long are u going to wait till the wedding day?