Since we are on this... i feel i must share this. A few friends of mine on saturday mornings give thier time to an Aids orphanage. where instead of throwing money and things (not discrediting that) they give thier time, wash the kids, feed and play with them, make them feel loved for at least 2 hours on that day. it goes a long way. they look forward to you coming and spending time with them and expressing love, love they need. something i will be doing myself
if anyone is interested i can pm you the details on how to get involved.