not one of those high text files of mine...i need constructive advice, no under 18.
IVE BEEN DATING THIS CHICK AND WELL IM WIPPED. HAD AN ARGUEMENT WITH DA FATHER AND OF COS HER FAMILY THINKS IM NO GUD. THRU DA FIGHTING WITH DA INLAWS AND TRIALS AND NUFF TRIBULATIONS WE SURVIVED TILL NOW AND SHE'S PREGNANT. AS AN UPCOMING ARTIST WHO WANNA START A PHOTOGRAPHY STUDIO AND A BUSINESS MAN WITH A COUPLE OF PROPOSALS UP MY SLEEVES SUCH AS AN APPROVED HIGH SCHOOL GYM I GOT A LOT ON MY PLATE FOR NEXT YEAR.
QUESTION IS I WANT A FAMILY AND TO MARRY HER BUT SHE JUST MATRICULATED AND HER FAMILY WANTS HER TO GO TO PRETORIA FOR TERTIARY. I WANT DA BEST FOR HER BUT IF SHE GOES AWAY A LOT CAN CHANGE. FACT IS WE CANT KEEP A BABY AND STAY APART. ARBORTION IS MURDER PLUS AN EASY WAY OUT. iVE BEEN HAVING SPIRITUAL VISIONS IN MY SLEEP , WELL I THINK GOD IS TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING...BUT WHATS THE LOGICAL THING TO DO?
1. That was very irresponsible of u getting her pregnant like that, how old is she and how far is she with her pregnancy?
2. Like Motho asked: What does she want?
3. If all goes wrong with yo plans, u'll have three lives suffering instead of just yo own...something to think about!
4. U dont want her being without her family, what does yo parents say bout the whole situation?
5. Has she decided on what she wants to study and is she accepted already?
It wud be advisable to keep the baby only if thats what both of you want and if u'll be able to provide for the family without running to loan sharks...parenthood is not childsplay...