Kellis I didn't mean blindly positive for positive's sake, I meant that I think there's things we have to learn to navigate life that help us avoid certain things.
We don't need bad experiences to learn them, we can actively seek that knowledge,
But when bad things do happen,maybe its to alert us to where we're weak and need work ie. where we need to shift our thinking and change so certain types of people aren't attracted to us and vice versa.
It's kinda like what Common says in Ghetto Heaven Part2 on the "Like water for chocolate' album:wanna certain typa guy,gta reach a certain point2,when u reach that destination,a king will anoint you.
Hey,I'm only 21,I don't have it all figured out...
[/quote] I've tried out already and it never worked, maybe I didnt "learn the lesson" that i was supposed to learn. How on earth are you goin to learn a lesson when you don't know what exactly is it that you're supposed to learn?!? LOL here's the funny part......When you don't learn that lesson then the same thing happens all over again. Ai ai ai talk about cruelty to humans.
