to conclude, i honestly dont see nothing wrong with interracial relationships, if it happens that i meet a white woman in my life, i will date her and if my family doesnt swallow that fact then il have to look for an alternative, il be compelled to do whats right, that is....letting it all go, its just what it is people, these things can backfire, its not a good look to have turn your family against you yourself for something that u shouldnt have done. customs are customs and our heritage is our heriatge, we live by it, rather adhere to it than dismantling it. one just has to try his/her luck with this shit. its a win or loose situation, you loose some you get some, but i just dont find it essential and crucial to sacrifice your familie's blessing and support for a white woman who doesnt comprehend the value of being respected as a man in your race or culture. best believe, its not worth it. rather make sure that it ends in the premises of the closed doors and that no one from your family finds out. but then again, i think arragance and ignorance also have an underlying impact on this issue beacause there are white families who are willing to have black in-laws, those are the kind of people that understand the tru meaning of love and who belive that race is not a binding factor or a barrier in a relationship.