laziness is bad.
also, sex shouldn't be a reward. not only is that one-dimensional, it's also sexually disempowering to women, and not to mention, probably the source for all this bullshit.
you don't have to do shit for me and i don't have to do shit for you. everything is done instead out of want. that's how i keeps it.
so Deac as much as i see where you're coming from i don't agree necessarily because it re-inforces an ideal i don't believe in. it's not anyone's job to do anything in a relationship unless you want it that way.
and i don't.