if you 'street mack' using humor and wit, while being respectful, i've found that homegirl usually entertains your bullshit, bites even.
my favourite refrain is when she's holding back her math, on some "i'll give you my number the next time we see each other".
and then you go around block, lol.
it's the game, though. there's a lot of bugged cats out there; women have to keep they guard up. it doesn't mean they stop being human, though.